"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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so i broke up with my girl a month ago

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the story here is i decided to end it with my gf after listening to her bull**** lies too much, im the one that ended it ( by text might i add, ***** i kno) and i cut all contact and deleted her from fb msn etc.

so come a month forward and she must of seen this pic with me and this girl i moved to and she randomly sends me a msg saying hey u alrite (random fluff talk which would piss me off)

now i know shes an ex and that shes an ex for a reason and that i should have many other plates etc

but im not looking to make her my gf again i just want to **** her a few more times before i completly gas her from my life, one of the reasons i didnt get to **** her nearly enough was because i didnt have a free house. now i have a free house and getting a new girl and getting to that comfort stage will take wayyyyyyy too long, so what would i have to do to bring her to my house and **** her a few more times without making her my girlfriend.

i didnt reply to her text when she tried to initiate contact.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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the truth is after i broke up with her she sent me one long ass text in reply to what i sent to her, i just brought her out on all her **** basically. i havent spoken to her since should i just call her out of the blue and tell her to come round? what if shes like i thought we was broken up etc.
 
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How about showing urself some Self-Respect!!! & moving on with ur Life and find some Quality Girl that actually intrests u n worth ur time.. Like u Said an Ex is an Ex for a Reason.
 
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its more about showing her no respect and using her then anything, im not looking for a quality girl im looking for a **** and duck !
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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stop wanting to "get back at her" its pathetic,
a true DJ would be INDIFFERENT and banging the other chicks not trying to get back and show her ....
 
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kingsam said:
stop wanting to "get back at her" its pathetic,
a true DJ would be INDIFFERENT and banging the other chicks not trying to get back and show her ....
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THIS.

Enlightenment is when you go "Hmm, I guess that's that" and move on...
 
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