"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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so i broke up with my girl a month ago

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the story here is i decided to end it with my gf after listening to her bull**** lies too much, im the one that ended it ( by text might i add, ***** i kno) and i cut all contact and deleted her from fb msn etc.

so come a month forward and she must of seen this pic with me and this girl i moved to and she randomly sends me a msg saying hey u alrite (random fluff talk which would piss me off)

now i know shes an ex and that shes an ex for a reason and that i should have many other plates etc

but im not looking to make her my gf again i just want to **** her a few more times before i completly gas her from my life, one of the reasons i didnt get to **** her nearly enough was because i didnt have a free house. now i have a free house and getting a new girl and getting to that comfort stage will take wayyyyyyy too long, so what would i have to do to bring her to my house and **** her a few more times without making her my girlfriend.

i didnt reply to her text when she tried to initiate contact.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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the truth is after i broke up with her she sent me one long ass text in reply to what i sent to her, i just brought her out on all her **** basically. i havent spoken to her since should i just call her out of the blue and tell her to come round? what if shes like i thought we was broken up etc.
 
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How about showing urself some Self-Respect!!! & moving on with ur Life and find some Quality Girl that actually intrests u n worth ur time.. Like u Said an Ex is an Ex for a Reason.
 
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its more about showing her no respect and using her then anything, im not looking for a quality girl im looking for a **** and duck !
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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stop wanting to "get back at her" its pathetic,
a true DJ would be INDIFFERENT and banging the other chicks not trying to get back and show her ....
 
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kingsam said:
stop wanting to "get back at her" its pathetic,
a true DJ would be INDIFFERENT and banging the other chicks not trying to get back and show her ....
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THIS.

Enlightenment is when you go "Hmm, I guess that's that" and move on...
 
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