"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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so i asked this girl out,here is what happend

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so i asked this girl out ,the first time she gave me a bull** excuses and said how about next week?
i said yea some other time then, and left,

during the week she gave me so much eye contact to the point where my friend were like dude she likes you dont you see?
any way i asked her out again she said ok but im going on vacation for 3 weeks

so i told myself yea shes not intrested and moved on

3days ago she sent me an email and said wanna go get some coffee?
im sending email cus some one stole my phone and i dont have a phone anymore
i said yea,we can go for a coffee at X on saturday,
but if u have more time than for just a cup of coffee my friend have these museum cards i can borrow so we can go to X musem and have a coffee there too,cus drinking coffee and talking alone is boring

she replied ive been in that musem how about next week in my house we can BBQ and my friends are comming too or i have these tickets for rowing boats that we can go(2 of us),or if you have some other fun thing in mind....

so heres the deal,it feels wierd that shes planing for our date right?
cus it was always me planing

btw i like this girl and dont want just a 1night stand

so i need some insight from you veterans
i know the BBQ thing is out of the question,boating seems fun thu,and its the 2 of us
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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haha
just go out with her man. if you want .....
 
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btw i like this girl and dont want just a 1night stand

Flag on the play...looks like Pedestalizing on the OP.

Are you trying to marry her or trying to fvck her?
 
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Bible_Belt said:
btw i like this girl and dont want just a 1night stand

Flag on the play...looks like Pedestalizing on the OP.

Are you trying to marry her or trying to fvck her?
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Personal Foul...offense...the OP is going to act like an AFC on the date and get friendzoned for not acting sexually interested. Fifteen yard penalty. Replay First Down.

OP...get this through your head. ALL relationships begin once sex has been had. There is NO relationship until this has occured, the girl is still a "free agent". I suggest if you are wanting a "relationship" you attempt to bang her as soon as possible...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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marmel75 said:
Personal Foul...offense...the OP is going to act like an AFC on the date and get friendzoned for not acting sexually interested. Fifteen yard penalty. Replay First Down.

OP...get this through your head. ALL relationships begin once sex has been had. There is NO relationship until this has occured, the girl is still a "free agent". I suggest if you are wanting a "relationship" you attempt to bang her as soon as possible...
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yup your right,
i needed some one to say something like that
 
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