Info about her
Status: single
Personality: very people friendly type and witty as if she's been around the block.. Always busy at work
She works at a local poker room. I see her almost couple times a week whenever i go. First time i saw her, 10 months ago, i asked for her nationality and she said "cambodian" and told her that she looks good then she asked me for mine, then she walks me to my poker table. (I just tried to play it cool)
6-5 months ago,I've been working out over the months, i looked even better after that first encounter
1. She has commented me on the rings that i wear
2. When she saw me not wear a hat, she said i "looking good honey"
So, i head over to my table as usual as she is busy (i flirt with her a bit but not much because i've already told her she looks good months ago)
3. She would touch me on the arm.. (ive always thought maybe she is just too damn friendly and its her job to make customers feel welcomed)
So i wanted to get to the bottom of it, so a month later, i found a small window of opportunity and asked her out while we were on one side of the room away from most players (and she's busy, always moving around seating players)
me: i like the blonde hair matched with your blue out fit.
Cougar: oh thank you honey
Me: so, whats your status, single, married, divorced, swinger?
Cougar: oh i'm single
Me, We should go out sometimes!
Cougar: oh i would love to honey, just wait for me later, but prepare to take some heat
Me: So she sits me down as usual
So, i ended up not waiting for her because i lost my money early and just left the poker room. And didn't want to look like a chump "waiting" for an answer
I disappear for 2 months after that and show up in the poker room around christmas time. I sign up at the podium to get seated and she greets me from behind and gives me a hug (im assuming it dont mean much and maybe just a way of saying no hard feelings so ill just give u a hug ) and i greeted her merry christmas back. And as usual, i went to my table
Fast forward 2 months (February) , recently i started going again, i'd just greet her as if nothing happened and play it cool and she is always moving around as she is busy managing the room. I figured, i already did my part and that there's nothing more for me to say at this point from here on. The ball is basically in her court.
Am i doing this right? What am i missing?
Worst comes to worst, she aint interested and thats ok.
Status: single
Personality: very people friendly type and witty as if she's been around the block.. Always busy at work
She works at a local poker room. I see her almost couple times a week whenever i go. First time i saw her, 10 months ago, i asked for her nationality and she said "cambodian" and told her that she looks good then she asked me for mine, then she walks me to my poker table. (I just tried to play it cool)
6-5 months ago,I've been working out over the months, i looked even better after that first encounter
1. She has commented me on the rings that i wear
2. When she saw me not wear a hat, she said i "looking good honey"
So, i head over to my table as usual as she is busy (i flirt with her a bit but not much because i've already told her she looks good months ago)
3. She would touch me on the arm.. (ive always thought maybe she is just too damn friendly and its her job to make customers feel welcomed)
So i wanted to get to the bottom of it, so a month later, i found a small window of opportunity and asked her out while we were on one side of the room away from most players (and she's busy, always moving around seating players)
me: i like the blonde hair matched with your blue out fit.
Cougar: oh thank you honey
Me: so, whats your status, single, married, divorced, swinger?
Cougar: oh i'm single
Me, We should go out sometimes!
Cougar: oh i would love to honey, just wait for me later, but prepare to take some heat
Me: So she sits me down as usual
So, i ended up not waiting for her because i lost my money early and just left the poker room. And didn't want to look like a chump "waiting" for an answer
I disappear for 2 months after that and show up in the poker room around christmas time. I sign up at the podium to get seated and she greets me from behind and gives me a hug (im assuming it dont mean much and maybe just a way of saying no hard feelings so ill just give u a hug ) and i greeted her merry christmas back. And as usual, i went to my table
Fast forward 2 months (February) , recently i started going again, i'd just greet her as if nothing happened and play it cool and she is always moving around as she is busy managing the room. I figured, i already did my part and that there's nothing more for me to say at this point from here on. The ball is basically in her court.
Am i doing this right? What am i missing?
Worst comes to worst, she aint interested and thats ok.
It seems you don't have the data in your head, so, it wasn't much of help But tnx for trying anyway. I'm looking for an answer from someone who has experience with older women. Would you not put effort or put effort? i'm siding with no effort at this point.