"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So I asked 20 fvcking girls to dance, and 2 did, is that good or bad?

lynch1000s

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Is asking 20 fvcking girls to dance and getting 2 yeses (actually dancing), good or fvcking bad????

Just curious as compared to the average... Random girls I ain't ever fvcking met before, plus I'm fvcking drunk as sh!t!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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garruk

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hmmm i dont htink thats a great average. i can run something like 75% sometimes, though i probably average at 50%.

you sound like you had an awesome time regardless though so who cares?
hah. also i find that if girls can tell you are too durnk they are less likely to do anything with oyu.

good luck buddy!
 

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It's good as it shows you are ballsy to do the cold approach, but it's bad because you need to work on developing more attraction before asking them to dance.
 

lynch1000s

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Lol, I've done much better (sober now).

But nah, 20/2 isn't bad, whatever!
 

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garruk said:
hmmm i dont htink thats a great average. i can run something like 75% sometimes, though i probably average at 50%.

you sound like you had an awesome time regardless though so who cares?
hah. also i find that if girls can tell you are too durnk they are less likely to do anything with oyu.

good luck buddy!
it doesn't matter how many no's you get, it matters how many yes's you get :)

but I have still done much better (brag) like 20/10 in a night (5/5 at a wedding, but that is easy)!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Asasione

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No matter what anyone says progress is progress as long as your moving forward its all good. Mathematically that's a poor average but, when it comes to women you gotta start somewhere I remember getting rejected 50 times though not in a row one weekend a couple years back, I kept trying new things and got off the liquid courage and the one nighters and girls approaching me came later. Keep at it
 

lynch1000s

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Asasione said:
No matter what anyone says progress is progress as long as your moving forward its all good. Mathematically that's a poor average but, when it comes to women you gotta start somewhere I remember getting rejected 50 times though not in a row one weekend a couple years back, I kept trying new things and got off the liquid courage and the one nighters and girls approaching me came later. Keep at it
It was college girls all into grinding, which is pretty sexual.

I mean, 20/2 is bad, but I think my numbers were lower because most of the girls were dancing with guys they knew from school, and didn't know me.

I've hit like 12 out of 15 before, but I've also gone 0 for 30 probably on a given night. One night means nothing, I was just drunk when I started this thread.

:rock: :cheer:
 

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i think using your fake personality would have got more girls dancing with you ...

having things such as ratios and close rates or close % is outcome depenant and pointless
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You don't always have to "ask" to dance with them...you just kinda rub up on them while on the dance floor. Sometimes they will allow it, sometimes they wont. Who cares really
 

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guywhoneedshelp said:
You don't always have to "ask" to dance with them...you just kinda rub up on them while on the dance floor. Sometimes they will allow it, sometimes they wont. Who cares really
Yeah, true, but you are not always in the right flow to just start dancing with girls.

No doubt, when my %'s are high, then it's never a matter of me asking a girl to dance :up:
 
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