"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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So I asked 20 fvcking girls to dance, and 2 did, is that good or bad?

lynch1000s

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Is asking 20 fvcking girls to dance and getting 2 yeses (actually dancing), good or fvcking bad????

Just curious as compared to the average... Random girls I ain't ever fvcking met before, plus I'm fvcking drunk as sh!t!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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garruk

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hmmm i dont htink thats a great average. i can run something like 75% sometimes, though i probably average at 50%.

you sound like you had an awesome time regardless though so who cares?
hah. also i find that if girls can tell you are too durnk they are less likely to do anything with oyu.

good luck buddy!
 

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It's good as it shows you are ballsy to do the cold approach, but it's bad because you need to work on developing more attraction before asking them to dance.
 

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Lol, I've done much better (sober now).

But nah, 20/2 isn't bad, whatever!
 

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garruk said:
hmmm i dont htink thats a great average. i can run something like 75% sometimes, though i probably average at 50%.

you sound like you had an awesome time regardless though so who cares?
hah. also i find that if girls can tell you are too durnk they are less likely to do anything with oyu.

good luck buddy!
it doesn't matter how many no's you get, it matters how many yes's you get :)

but I have still done much better (brag) like 20/10 in a night (5/5 at a wedding, but that is easy)!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Asasione

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No matter what anyone says progress is progress as long as your moving forward its all good. Mathematically that's a poor average but, when it comes to women you gotta start somewhere I remember getting rejected 50 times though not in a row one weekend a couple years back, I kept trying new things and got off the liquid courage and the one nighters and girls approaching me came later. Keep at it
 

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Asasione said:
No matter what anyone says progress is progress as long as your moving forward its all good. Mathematically that's a poor average but, when it comes to women you gotta start somewhere I remember getting rejected 50 times though not in a row one weekend a couple years back, I kept trying new things and got off the liquid courage and the one nighters and girls approaching me came later. Keep at it
It was college girls all into grinding, which is pretty sexual.

I mean, 20/2 is bad, but I think my numbers were lower because most of the girls were dancing with guys they knew from school, and didn't know me.

I've hit like 12 out of 15 before, but I've also gone 0 for 30 probably on a given night. One night means nothing, I was just drunk when I started this thread.

:rock: :cheer:
 

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i think using your fake personality would have got more girls dancing with you ...

having things such as ratios and close rates or close % is outcome depenant and pointless
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You don't always have to "ask" to dance with them...you just kinda rub up on them while on the dance floor. Sometimes they will allow it, sometimes they wont. Who cares really
 

lynch1000s

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guywhoneedshelp said:
You don't always have to "ask" to dance with them...you just kinda rub up on them while on the dance floor. Sometimes they will allow it, sometimes they wont. Who cares really
Yeah, true, but you are not always in the right flow to just start dancing with girls.

No doubt, when my %'s are high, then it's never a matter of me asking a girl to dance :up:
 
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