"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So I asked 20 fvcking girls to dance, and 2 did, is that good or bad?

lynch1000s

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Is asking 20 fvcking girls to dance and getting 2 yeses (actually dancing), good or fvcking bad????

Just curious as compared to the average... Random girls I ain't ever fvcking met before, plus I'm fvcking drunk as sh!t!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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garruk

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hmmm i dont htink thats a great average. i can run something like 75% sometimes, though i probably average at 50%.

you sound like you had an awesome time regardless though so who cares?
hah. also i find that if girls can tell you are too durnk they are less likely to do anything with oyu.

good luck buddy!
 

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It's good as it shows you are ballsy to do the cold approach, but it's bad because you need to work on developing more attraction before asking them to dance.
 

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Lol, I've done much better (sober now).

But nah, 20/2 isn't bad, whatever!
 

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garruk said:
hmmm i dont htink thats a great average. i can run something like 75% sometimes, though i probably average at 50%.

you sound like you had an awesome time regardless though so who cares?
hah. also i find that if girls can tell you are too durnk they are less likely to do anything with oyu.

good luck buddy!
it doesn't matter how many no's you get, it matters how many yes's you get :)

but I have still done much better (brag) like 20/10 in a night (5/5 at a wedding, but that is easy)!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Asasione

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No matter what anyone says progress is progress as long as your moving forward its all good. Mathematically that's a poor average but, when it comes to women you gotta start somewhere I remember getting rejected 50 times though not in a row one weekend a couple years back, I kept trying new things and got off the liquid courage and the one nighters and girls approaching me came later. Keep at it
 

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Asasione said:
No matter what anyone says progress is progress as long as your moving forward its all good. Mathematically that's a poor average but, when it comes to women you gotta start somewhere I remember getting rejected 50 times though not in a row one weekend a couple years back, I kept trying new things and got off the liquid courage and the one nighters and girls approaching me came later. Keep at it
It was college girls all into grinding, which is pretty sexual.

I mean, 20/2 is bad, but I think my numbers were lower because most of the girls were dancing with guys they knew from school, and didn't know me.

I've hit like 12 out of 15 before, but I've also gone 0 for 30 probably on a given night. One night means nothing, I was just drunk when I started this thread.

:rock: :cheer:
 

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i think using your fake personality would have got more girls dancing with you ...

having things such as ratios and close rates or close % is outcome depenant and pointless
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You don't always have to "ask" to dance with them...you just kinda rub up on them while on the dance floor. Sometimes they will allow it, sometimes they wont. Who cares really
 

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guywhoneedshelp said:
You don't always have to "ask" to dance with them...you just kinda rub up on them while on the dance floor. Sometimes they will allow it, sometimes they wont. Who cares really
Yeah, true, but you are not always in the right flow to just start dancing with girls.

No doubt, when my %'s are high, then it's never a matter of me asking a girl to dance :up:
 
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