"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So I accidentally ran across a video of my friend's fiancee getting double teamed on a porn site lol

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i don't really watch porn much at all anymore. But saturday was perfect. the wife was out with her friends, my kids are in arkansas with my mom, i got the house to my self. I planned the **** out lol. jUst like old times. gonna sit down and stroke one out to some good old fashion porn.


so i'm looking online. at a porn site that i am known to visit when i am looking for porn. I like homemde porn. So i'm looking and i see this chick that looks a lot like this girl that a friend of mine from the horse track is engaged to. Then I click on the link and im like it REALLLLY looks like it's her down to the tattoo on her left leg. Obviously this video was taken maybe 6-8 years ago but i'm like man this really could be her. Then i actually look at the link of the name and realize her name is litearlly in the title of the ****ing video lol.


I admit, got off lol. she took those ****s like a ****ing champ.


after getting off lol, i call my friend and tell him that he needs too come over. He comes over. I show him the video. He confronts her about it and she's like it's not me. even though we have the same tatoo at the same place and this person looks just like me and my name is in the video lol it's not me.


You know what really gets me about this and i think my friend feels the same way. it's not even the ****ing video. i mean, she was ovbiously drunk as ****, she goes out when she's 22-23 years old to a club, gets plastered, hooks up with 2 dudes and some dude pulls out a phone and reccords it. it's been known to happen. but she told him she doesn't like to do anal which according to the video, is not the case lol
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm just wondering what you thought would happen after you showed your friend the video?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i don't really watch porn much at all anymore. But saturday was perfect. the wife was out with her friends, my kids are in arkansas with my mom, i got the house to my self. I planned the **** out lol. jUst like old times. gonna sit down and stroke one out to some good old fashion porn.


so i'm looking online. at a porn site that i am known to visit when i am looking for porn. I like homemde porn. So i'm looking and i see this chick that looks a lot like this girl that a friend of mine from the horse track is engaged to. Then I click on the link and im like it REALLLLY looks like it's her down to the tattoo on her left leg. Obviously this video was taken maybe 6-8 years ago but i'm like man this really could be her. Then i actually look at the link of the name and realize her name is litearlly in the title of the ****ing video lol.


I admit, got off lol. she took those ****s like a ****ing champ.


after getting off lol, i call my friend and tell him that he needs too come over. He comes over. I show him the video. He confronts her about it and she's like it's not me. even though we have the same tatoo at the same place and this person looks just like me and my name is in the video lol it's not me.


You know what really gets me about this and i think my friend feels the same way. it's not even the ****ing video. i mean, she was ovbiously drunk as ****, she goes out when she's 22-23 years old to a club, gets plastered, hooks up with 2 dudes and some dude pulls out a phone and reccords it. it's been known to happen. but she told him she doesn't like to do anal which according to the video, is not the case lol
Is he going to keep her or kick her?
 

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after getting off lol, i call my friend and tell him that he needs too come over. He comes over. I show him the video. He confronts her about it and she's like it's not me. even though we have the same tatoo at the same place and this person looks just like me and my name is in the video lol it's not me.


You know what really gets me about this and i think my friend feels the same way. it's not even the ****ing video. i mean, she was ovbiously drunk as ****, she goes out when she's 22-23 years old to a club, gets plastered, hooks up with 2 dudes and some dude pulls out a phone and reccords it. it's been known to happen. but she told him she doesn't like to do anal which according to the video, is not the case lol
Lol, that's funny. About how long ago was the video done? You said she was about 22 - 23 in the video, how old is she now?

See me personally, I know most women have done wh0ring shyt....hell...I've done wh0ring shyt. But if I'm ever going to marry someone they have to be 100% honest with me JUST LIKE I am 100% honest with them. The FACT that this bytch is lying about the video, lying about anal sex, and lying about having even made videos like this (there most likely are more) are what are red flags to me, not the fact that she was 22, single and enjoying her life at the time.

I've said it before, I even expect that if I'm married to a chick for 20 years, I expect her to cheat! It's blue pill/Disney land shyt to think it won't happen. All I ask is that you don't fvck another piece of shyt in my house, put a condom on, and we exchange a "cheat for a cheat". So you get to fvck your side piece on Friday and I get to fvck mine! That's the deal!

Lol, that might sound weird but the reality is that if you really want longevity, it's things like this that are going to have to be managed.
 

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Lol, that's funny. About how long ago was the video done? You said she was about 22 - 23 in the video, how old is she now?

See me personally, I know most women have done wh0ring shyt....hell...I've done wh0ring shyt. But if I'm ever going to marry someone they have to be 100% honest with me JUST LIKE I am 100% honest with them. The FACT that this bytch is lying about the video, lying about anal sex, and lying about having even made videos like this (there most likely are more) are what are red flags to me, not the fact that she was 22, single and enjoying her life at the time.

I've said it before, I even expect that if I'm married to a chick for 20 years, I expect her to cheat! It's blue pill/Disney land shyt to think it won't happen. All I ask is that you don't fvck another piece of shyt in my house, put a condom on, and we exchange a "cheat for a cheat". So you get to fvck your side piece on Friday and I get to fvck mine! That's the deal!

Lol, that might sound weird but the reality is that if you really want longevity, it's things like this that are going to have to be managed.
she's 30. if i had to guess, this was taken around the time when she was 20-22 years old. it's obviously her but it was a while ago.

i mean if my wife cheats she can auto pack her **** and get the **** out lol, but i agree for the most part. I even tried to play nice detective. I even tried to tell her look. We get it. No really lol I GET IT. No one wants to admit they got tag teamed and it's filmed on line, but i mean, we've been there. I've done some **** that i sure as hell don't want to be filmed that''s much worse than having 100% legal sex with 2 men at the same time.

So i tell her look, and I mean I like the girl. She's sweet, she really does love my friend, I have no doubt about that. I don't want them to break up over something this silly. So I'm like look here, if you just come fuccking straight we can play this out like look okay i did it, it happened it was 10 years ago, i was drunk, the ******* pulled out a video cam and i didn't realize what happened until later. There are no more videos (are there lol, so i can find them lol?), you know, but you know, i can work with that lol. that's a workable situation.

But by saying this isn't you, not only are you a *****, you're a lying *****. by you saying it's not you, and it obviously being you, ,now everything you said comes into question. What if this isn't the only video? what if he does his detective work and finds one more peie of hoe work and decides he doesn't want to marry you anymore? i mean ****, it's you lol. you know it's you,, i know it's you,, he knows it's you the two guys who drilled you here know it's you lol. you hanging on to the hope that he doesn't believe this is you is futile because 1. he's not an idiot and 2. i won't let him because i know just as well as you do that this is you lol.


the older i've gotten the more i've learned patience. i told him to give her a week and don't bring it up, let her come around to the idea of spilling the bbeans mentally in her own head. she will.she's not an idiot either .She just hasn't mentally accecpted that this is out there and h e knows about it.


i told him that she owes him an anal for lying tho lol
 

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Yes he does need to know this. He is going to marry her. He needs to know everything possible about her so he can make an informed decision to keep her or kick her to the curb.
I agree. It always sucks to be the LAST one to know and everyone knows even your friends.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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she's 30. if i had to guess, this was taken around the time when she was 20-22 years old. it's obviously her but it was a while ago.

i mean if my wife cheats she can auto pack her **** and get the **** out lol, but i agree for the most part. I even tried to play nice detective. I even tried to tell her look. We get it. No really lol I GET IT. No one wants to admit they got tag teamed and it's filmed on line, but i mean, we've been there. I've done some **** that i sure as hell don't want to be filmed that''s much worse than having 100% legal sex with 2 men at the same time.

So i tell her look, and I mean I like the girl. She's sweet, she really does love my friend, I have no doubt about that. I don't want them to break up over something this silly. So I'm like look here, if you just come fuccking straight we can play this out like look okay i did it, it happened it was 10 years ago, i was drunk, the ******* pulled out a video cam and i didn't realize what happened until later. There are no more videos (are there lol, so i can find them lol?), you know, but you know, i can work with that lol. that's a workable situation.

But by saying this isn't you, not only are you a *****, you're a lying *****. by you saying it's not you, and it obviously being you, ,now everything you said comes into question. What if this isn't the only video? what if he does his detective work and finds one more peie of hoe work and decides he doesn't want to marry you anymore? i mean ****, it's you lol. you know it's you,, i know it's you,, he knows it's you the two guys who drilled you here know it's you lol. you hanging on to the hope that he doesn't believe this is you is futile because 1. he's not an idiot and 2. i won't let him because i know just as well as you do that this is you lol.


the older i've gotten the more i've learned patience. i told him to give her a week and don't bring it up, let her come around to the idea of spilling the bbeans mentally in her own head. she will.she's not an idiot either .She just hasn't mentally accecpted that this is out there and h e knows about it.


i told him that she owes him an anal for lying tho lol
That last line...
 

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I'm just tagging this thread because it has some serious potential to turn epic.
 

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This has happened to me twice. I found nude modeling pics of my cousins wife online.

I found another video of a girl I knew from my job twerking in a g-string online on shakinit.com.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If they used her name in the video title, and she was never a pro, then it's likely revenge porn. Somebody put it out there to screw her over. I'm with everybody who said lying about the anal was the worst. Can you imagine being denied anal by this woman when you can see that she clearly liked it at one time? lol
I realize that the world has changed somewhat, but I'd tend to stay away from women who have done MMF threesomes as an LTR. FFM, now that's a whole other beast, but MMF chicks are genuinely dirty. Like the groupies who chase drummers lol - the dirtiest and freakiest of the herd.
 

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I can't believe a man wouldn't need to know..... She does anal for free. You provide a roof over her head, feed her and all of the sudden, she doesn't like anal????? ANYTHING you've done before, you'll do for me. I'm not a second class citizen just because I put a ring on it. Don't like it? f'ng leave. Privacy my azz, it's ONLINE. He'd see it soon enough.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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