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Can i just invite her tomorrow in first text or do i need to ask her couple questions about her day n ****??
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
So hows appropriate way to get them out on dates usually?? Aftet 1st meet
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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yea ask a couple questions first, talk to her, like ask her what she did today, and another question in relation to her answer, and then comment on that answer, ask her about her hobbies/job/career plans/goals whatever the ****, talk to her a bit, and then ask her what shes doing tomorrow, and regardless of if she starts naming a billion things shes gota do, invite her anyways, but dont like ask her, tell her, letts hang out (dont mention dates please) if she says no ask when are we going then? her answer there will say a lot, bust her balls if she says she doesnt know, rip her apart, in a nice way, or just say ill pick up saturday at 8 then.
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There are several steps.
1) Get her to be attracted.
2) Get her number.
3) Give her a cheek kiss. She will hopefully make a noise when you do this. She will play a note. Ideally she will turn so that you accidentally kiss her lips.
4) Get her to reply and have a conversation.
5) Get her to initiate a text conversation.
6) Offer a date.
7) Get her to show up.
This usually takes several weeks with the hottest women. You have to slowly become part of her regular circle.
1) Get her to be attracted.
2) Get her number.
3) Give her a cheek kiss. She will hopefully make a noise when you do this. She will play a note. Ideally she will turn so that you accidentally kiss her lips.
4) Get her to reply and have a conversation.
5) Get her to initiate a text conversation.
6) Offer a date.
7) Get her to show up.
This usually takes several weeks with the hottest women. You have to slowly become part of her regular circle.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Usually works alright if you just ask how her day has been. Then you comment briefly about what you were doing. It helps if you can say something charming, but that isn't necessary. The whole convo doesn't have to be long at all. Then you say, "I was thinking about doing [blank], if you want to tag along." It's best if you can offer two alternative days, because she might busy on one of the days. I think that you should generally give 48 hours' notice if feasible, but it's not absolutely required.
Preferably, the whole conversation should be 5 minutes or less.
Preferably, the whole conversation should be 5 minutes or less.