"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So how does everyone dress?

Charm&Style

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SomethingClever said:
Some days i look like something out of an A&F/Hollister/Aero/AE catalogue, others i look like an up and coming rockstar. Sometimes, i do both and mix 'em.

barf.

dont be one of those guys.

have you own style, stand out :yes:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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just so suave

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im a chav lol, i dont feel right wearing smooth shirts and ripped jeans and shoes. i prefer tracksuit bottoms and sportsbrand jackets like the mckenzie brand. Nike trainers. Round necked tops, no collars. I feel right in these sort of clothes
 

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just so suave said:
im a chav lol, i dont feel right wearing smooth shirts and ripped jeans and shoes. i prefer tracksuit bottoms and sportsbrand jackets like the mckenzie brand. Nike trainers. Round necked tops, no collars. I feel right in these sort of clothes
Then wear those kind of cloths. Wear whatever you feel most comfortable in. Don't pretend to be something your not. Instead become.
 

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Salvation Army clothing

gym shorts and a sports t-shirt (old baseball or soccer shirts)

women love it and it's cheap as hell even though I am able to afford designer jeans and such. I like it and so does my women.

comic_relief
 

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some of you guys try way to hard...

comic_relief
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I apologize for the previous comment. To each there own.

I just wear the loose jeans and good will and salvation army plaid shirts. Not anything hillbilly, but just a sweet looking plaid. Some video game t's and mostly random t-shirts.

Filas once and awhile or I just have my pumas or clog like shoes.
 

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Usually a white shirt and some jeans does the trick, usually I put on some black brogues to finish.

I have been described in the past as the typical tall, dark, handsome kind yet I always get rejections at clubs.
 

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Python said:
Usually a white shirt and some jeans does the trick, usually I put on some black brogues to finish.

I have been described in the past as the typical tall, dark, handsome kind yet I always get rejections at clubs.
I just got a number close with a HB8 at the weekend and all it took was abit of balls.
Sadly I am going to be away for a week, so it might **** up the opportunity, but I have proven to myself that it is possible.
 

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Play boy stretched cap

"masters in oral persuasion" shirt...

Rolex watch

Gucci dog tag

Buffalo (game) fades jeans

White uptownss..

Sum earings...

Dress to impress and look fresh... does the trick for me...
 

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I know that some of you are joking, but seriously...if you dress like that you seriously must have homosexual tendancies....go shove a d1ck up ur a$$.:rockon:

I personally wear a pink thong over my tight jeans, short enough to show my balls, and a pink silk jacket from japan. That seems to attract the ladies.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ChapStick

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Wanderer* said:
I know that some of you are joking, but seriously...if you dress like that you seriously must have homosexual tendancies....go shove a d1ck up ur a$$.:rockon:

I personally wear a pink thong over my tight jeans, short enough to show my balls, and a pink silk jacket from japan. That seems to attract the ladies.
Hahahahaha!
 

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alll goodd!!

Bro!...when it comes too clothes i go crazy

this style has always work'

-sunglasses
-shirt(design not to over the top)
-t-shirt or tank top
-jeans
-designer trainners,timberlands,leather shoes... any of them work well
-nice piece of jewellery

and the transformation is complete...

now that is fresh what u think?
 

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Decent levi jeans, and a tee from my college.

When i'm going out, chinos or jeans with a bluish button up.

In the summer, board shorts and teeshirts with sandals.

I used to be called white-washed (i'm black), but now people leave my style alone. I do need to bulk to fill out my collared shirts a little.
 

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Haha Charm&Style that really IS pimpin' lol...

Trend, have you read Mystery's book, he says wear something which is congruent with your image. He says the guy in the bar wearing a boa hat and holding a big cane, with two girls hanging off of his arm, is the coolest guy at the joint.
 

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I wear girl pants and tight shirts
....fvck me runnin'

:kick:

yeah the only reason you would be getting attention from girls wearing clothes like that, is because they are looking for another "Girlfriend" to shop with and blab an ear off about MEN.

I could just imagine the pick up lines you are presented..
"Hey! Nice pants!... Look, I'm wearing the same pair!" :rolleyes:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Well I try to wear a decent looking shirt. Like a shirt from a rock band or a beer logo shirt.

I like wearing jeans that are a little loose not to baggy or to tight.

And I wear my nice looking skatebaord shoes. And somedays I wear my dress up shoes.
 

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Do any of you use "peacock" items?
 

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Randallpink83 said:
I could just imagine the pick up lines you are presented..
"Hey! Nice pants!... Look, I'm wearing the same pair!" :rolleyes:
LMAO
 

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Whatever works for you buddy.

I wear loose jeans but they fit right around my waist. I usually have on a pair of black basketball shoes, a tight fitting t-shirt, and if its a cold day I'll have my "aviator jacket" on over it or my leather.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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