"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So how does everyone dress?

Charm&Style

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SomethingClever said:
Some days i look like something out of an A&F/Hollister/Aero/AE catalogue, others i look like an up and coming rockstar. Sometimes, i do both and mix 'em.

barf.

dont be one of those guys.

have you own style, stand out :yes:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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just so suave

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im a chav lol, i dont feel right wearing smooth shirts and ripped jeans and shoes. i prefer tracksuit bottoms and sportsbrand jackets like the mckenzie brand. Nike trainers. Round necked tops, no collars. I feel right in these sort of clothes
 

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just so suave said:
im a chav lol, i dont feel right wearing smooth shirts and ripped jeans and shoes. i prefer tracksuit bottoms and sportsbrand jackets like the mckenzie brand. Nike trainers. Round necked tops, no collars. I feel right in these sort of clothes
Then wear those kind of cloths. Wear whatever you feel most comfortable in. Don't pretend to be something your not. Instead become.
 

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Salvation Army clothing

gym shorts and a sports t-shirt (old baseball or soccer shirts)

women love it and it's cheap as hell even though I am able to afford designer jeans and such. I like it and so does my women.

comic_relief
 

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some of you guys try way to hard...

comic_relief
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I apologize for the previous comment. To each there own.

I just wear the loose jeans and good will and salvation army plaid shirts. Not anything hillbilly, but just a sweet looking plaid. Some video game t's and mostly random t-shirts.

Filas once and awhile or I just have my pumas or clog like shoes.
 

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Usually a white shirt and some jeans does the trick, usually I put on some black brogues to finish.

I have been described in the past as the typical tall, dark, handsome kind yet I always get rejections at clubs.
 

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Python said:
Usually a white shirt and some jeans does the trick, usually I put on some black brogues to finish.

I have been described in the past as the typical tall, dark, handsome kind yet I always get rejections at clubs.
I just got a number close with a HB8 at the weekend and all it took was abit of balls.
Sadly I am going to be away for a week, so it might **** up the opportunity, but I have proven to myself that it is possible.
 

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Play boy stretched cap

"masters in oral persuasion" shirt...

Rolex watch

Gucci dog tag

Buffalo (game) fades jeans

White uptownss..

Sum earings...

Dress to impress and look fresh... does the trick for me...
 

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I know that some of you are joking, but seriously...if you dress like that you seriously must have homosexual tendancies....go shove a d1ck up ur a$$.:rockon:

I personally wear a pink thong over my tight jeans, short enough to show my balls, and a pink silk jacket from japan. That seems to attract the ladies.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ChapStick

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Wanderer* said:
I know that some of you are joking, but seriously...if you dress like that you seriously must have homosexual tendancies....go shove a d1ck up ur a$$.:rockon:

I personally wear a pink thong over my tight jeans, short enough to show my balls, and a pink silk jacket from japan. That seems to attract the ladies.
Hahahahaha!
 

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alll goodd!!

Bro!...when it comes too clothes i go crazy

this style has always work'

-sunglasses
-shirt(design not to over the top)
-t-shirt or tank top
-jeans
-designer trainners,timberlands,leather shoes... any of them work well
-nice piece of jewellery

and the transformation is complete...

now that is fresh what u think?
 

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Decent levi jeans, and a tee from my college.

When i'm going out, chinos or jeans with a bluish button up.

In the summer, board shorts and teeshirts with sandals.

I used to be called white-washed (i'm black), but now people leave my style alone. I do need to bulk to fill out my collared shirts a little.
 

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Haha Charm&Style that really IS pimpin' lol...

Trend, have you read Mystery's book, he says wear something which is congruent with your image. He says the guy in the bar wearing a boa hat and holding a big cane, with two girls hanging off of his arm, is the coolest guy at the joint.
 

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Trend said:
I wear girl pants and tight shirts
....fvck me runnin'

:kick:

yeah the only reason you would be getting attention from girls wearing clothes like that, is because they are looking for another "Girlfriend" to shop with and blab an ear off about MEN.

I could just imagine the pick up lines you are presented..
"Hey! Nice pants!... Look, I'm wearing the same pair!" :rolleyes:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well I try to wear a decent looking shirt. Like a shirt from a rock band or a beer logo shirt.

I like wearing jeans that are a little loose not to baggy or to tight.

And I wear my nice looking skatebaord shoes. And somedays I wear my dress up shoes.
 

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Do any of you use "peacock" items?
 

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Randallpink83 said:
I could just imagine the pick up lines you are presented..
"Hey! Nice pants!... Look, I'm wearing the same pair!" :rolleyes:
LMAO
 

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Whatever works for you buddy.

I wear loose jeans but they fit right around my waist. I usually have on a pair of black basketball shoes, a tight fitting t-shirt, and if its a cold day I'll have my "aviator jacket" on over it or my leather.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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