miniPIMPIN
Banned
dam am i tha only person who dresses thugged out here? lol.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
So how does everyone dress?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
GaryUranga
Master Don Juan
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my style has changed a bit its more preppy-surf-punky now, weird mix but I like it
navyseal2101
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C&S you look tight, I dress kinda similar, like a mix of you and Mystery when going out but usually just polo+jeans. Thrift shops are where I get my going out clothes, lots of cool cheap stuff there.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Scars
Master Don Juan
I usually keep it kind of punk/rock with a tad of preppyness. I don't do the whole gay tight pants thing. (No offense to anyone who does that.) Usually camo shorts or black shorts from anchor blue, studded belt (a must), slip-on shoes, usually tight fitting or band tee. I also have a lip-ring. I get mistaken for being emo a lot. It helps attract some scene *****es though. But also the preppy *****es are drawn to me because I'm a little different, then I start negging the **** out of them... works for me.
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
lol bro im a freshman in college too, yah true i get the "wow you dont look 19 but 21" all the time (i think its the facial hair and my thinning scalp hair)ChapStick said:
but heres a few more pics:
http://photos-170.ll.facebook.com/photos-ll-sf2p/v73/114/115/598500170/n598500170_364466_1620.jpg
http://photos-c.ak.facebook.com/photos-ak-sctm/v98/114/115/598500170/n598500170_621294_2262.jpg
GaryUranga
Master Don Juan
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Im now using a more sufer-punk-prep look, I like the mix
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
I dress in comfortable jeans and usually a white or black t-shirt that is tight around the chest but not the stomach so it shows my pecks and hides the lack of a defined six-pack with an open button-up shirt over the top (unless I'm cycling somewhere cos then I look like batman ). It's a simple, cheap style and in the summer on hot days I leave the under shirt and just have an open shirt on (gets the girls attention because nobody else my age around my area does this).
It's a cheap and simple style, but it works for me. I get a few comments on my dress (more in summer) but with almost every girl I meet now they comment on my jewlery. I wear 2 thin beach bracelets on my left arm, a beachy necklace around my neck and another (different design) around my right wrist. And to top it off if they mention any of the above jewlery I stick my tongue out to reveal a tongue piercing that's never expected due to my dress style. Always gets them wondering what else I've got hidden
). It's a simple, cheap style and in the summer on hot days I leave the under shirt and just have an open shirt on (gets the girls attention because nobody else my age around my area does this).It's a cheap and simple style, but it works for me. I get a few comments on my dress (more in summer) but with almost every girl I meet now they comment on my jewlery. I wear 2 thin beach bracelets on my left arm, a beachy necklace around my neck and another (different design) around my right wrist. And to top it off if they mention any of the above jewlery I stick my tongue out to reveal a tongue piercing that's never expected due to my dress style. Always gets them wondering what else I've got hidden
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
DogFashionDisco
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I went from being an emo/skater fag to having a clean, hip, somewhat preppy (New England-esque, not Abercrombie) style. Which it seems, is very rare in highschool these days.
My wardrobe consists of mainly layering fitted dress shirts and vests/sweaters, t-shirts, a few oxfords, and low rise jeans (low-rise jeans are the best) that are tighter around the thighs.
I wear brands like Club Monaco, Guess, Calvin Klein, FCUK, Puma, Diesel, and Gap.
I swear, every time I go out, I've got girls left and right staring me down like I'm Brad Pitt or something. And I'm not the biggest guy in the world. Not yet at least.
Oh and I hate polos and flip-flops. I can't understand why everyone wheres those things. It's disgusting. :moon:
My wardrobe consists of mainly layering fitted dress shirts and vests/sweaters, t-shirts, a few oxfords, and low rise jeans (low-rise jeans are the best) that are tighter around the thighs.
I wear brands like Club Monaco, Guess, Calvin Klein, FCUK, Puma, Diesel, and Gap.
I swear, every time I go out, I've got girls left and right staring me down like I'm Brad Pitt or something. And I'm not the biggest guy in the world. Not yet at least.
Oh and I hate polos and flip-flops. I can't understand why everyone wheres those things. It's disgusting. :moon:
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
I hangout with a lot of bloods so I sort of have a gangster look to me, but I don't bag my jeans below my ass. I like tight jeans--not emo--vans, a hollister, aeropostle, american eagle shirt, and a hat and shades.
DogFashionDisco
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ChapStick said:
Dude, all you gotta do is find an outlet mall nearby (that isn't ****ty), and they'll have some good brands for less. That and look for sales. That's what I do alot. Other than Club Monaco and FCUK, I rarely pay full price for those brands (besides Gap, cause they're cheap as it is).
And most of the Guess jeans I've bought were under $85. Hell I once got 2 pairs for $65.00. Gotta love sales.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
SomethingClever
Don Juan
Some days i look like something out of an A&F/Hollister/Aero/AE catalogue, others i look like an up and coming rockstar. Sometimes, i do both and mix 'em.
Bryce556
Senior Don Juan
well theres a diff for me for what id like to wear and what i do lol, cause when i wear what i want people think im dressing to old, but mainly i wear alot of A & F, and AE stuff, levi jeans or A & F Jeans, always jeans and polos, sweaters or button up shirt. i try to go for more fitted stuff shows off some of my muscle, i dont wear anything jewlery wise, but i have rayban sunglasses i wear often.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.