“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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So how does everyone dress?

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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navyseal2101

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C&S you look tight, I dress kinda similar, like a mix of you and Mystery when going out but usually just polo+jeans. Thrift shops are where I get my going out clothes, lots of cool cheap stuff there.
 

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Yeah I usually incorporate some black into my style. During the summer like now I like to wear cargo/jean shorts and maybe a button down shirt.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Scars

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I usually keep it kind of punk/rock with a tad of preppyness. I don't do the whole gay tight pants thing. (No offense to anyone who does that.) Usually camo shorts or black shorts from anchor blue, studded belt (a must), slip-on shoes, usually tight fitting or band tee. I also have a lip-ring. I get mistaken for being emo a lot. It helps attract some scene *****es though. But also the preppy *****es are drawn to me because I'm a little different, then I start negging the **** out of them... works for me.
 

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I usually wear basketball shorts and a polo... not the most stylin' thing out there but it works for me. Occasionally ill throw in a hat as well.
 

Charm&Style

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ChapStick said:
I also love your style! TOo bad I'm still a freshman in college, and have a young look. When I am older I will definitely dress more like that!
lol bro im a freshman in college too, yah true i get the "wow you dont look 19 but 21" all the time (i think its the facial hair and my thinning scalp hair) :p

but heres a few more pics:

http://photos-170.ll.facebook.com/photos-ll-sf2p/v73/114/115/598500170/n598500170_364466_1620.jpg
http://photos-c.ak.facebook.com/photos-ak-sctm/v98/114/115/598500170/n598500170_621294_2262.jpg
 

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I dress in comfortable jeans and usually a white or black t-shirt that is tight around the chest but not the stomach so it shows my pecks and hides the lack of a defined six-pack with an open button-up shirt over the top (unless I'm cycling somewhere cos then I look like batman :p). It's a simple, cheap style and in the summer on hot days I leave the under shirt and just have an open shirt on (gets the girls attention because nobody else my age around my area does this).

It's a cheap and simple style, but it works for me. I get a few comments on my dress (more in summer) but with almost every girl I meet now they comment on my jewlery. I wear 2 thin beach bracelets on my left arm, a beachy necklace around my neck and another (different design) around my right wrist. And to top it off if they mention any of the above jewlery I stick my tongue out to reveal a tongue piercing that's never expected due to my dress style. Always gets them wondering what else I've got hidden ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I went from being an emo/skater fag to having a clean, hip, somewhat preppy (New England-esque, not Abercrombie) style. Which it seems, is very rare in highschool these days.

My wardrobe consists of mainly layering fitted dress shirts and vests/sweaters, t-shirts, a few oxfords, and low rise jeans (low-rise jeans are the best) that are tighter around the thighs.

I wear brands like Club Monaco, Guess, Calvin Klein, FCUK, Puma, Diesel, and Gap.

I swear, every time I go out, I've got girls left and right staring me down like I'm Brad Pitt or something. And I'm not the biggest guy in the world. Not yet at least.

Oh and I hate polos and flip-flops. I can't understand why everyone wheres those things. It's disgusting. :moon:
 

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I hangout with a lot of bloods so I sort of have a gangster look to me, but I don't bag my jeans below my ass. I like tight jeans--not emo--vans, a hollister, aeropostle, american eagle shirt, and a hat and shades.
 

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DogFashionDisco said:
I went from being an emo/skater fag to having a clean, hip, somewhat preppy (New England-esque, not Abercrombie) style. Which it seems, is very rare in highschool these days.

My wardrobe consists of mainly layering fitted dress shirts and vests/sweaters, t-shirts, a few oxfords, and low rise jeans (low-rise jeans are the best) that are tighter around the thighs.

I wear brands like Club Monaco, Guess, Calvin Klein, FCUK, Puma, Diesel, and Gap.

I swear, every time I go out, I've got girls left and right staring me down like I'm Brad Pitt or something. And I'm not the biggest guy in the world. Not yet at least.

Oh and I hate polos and flip-flops. I can't understand why everyone wheres those things. It's disgusting. :moon:
Wish I could afford clothes by those brands! A decent pair of jeans by Guess is at least $150... They're nice jeans though. Beautiful Diesel jeans go for around $300 from what I've seen..
 

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ChapStick said:
Wish I could afford clothes by those brands! A decent pair of jeans by Guess is at least $150... They're nice jeans though. Beautiful Diesel jeans go for around $300 from what I've seen..

Dude, all you gotta do is find an outlet mall nearby (that isn't ****ty), and they'll have some good brands for less. That and look for sales. That's what I do alot. Other than Club Monaco and FCUK, I rarely pay full price for those brands (besides Gap, cause they're cheap as it is).

And most of the Guess jeans I've bought were under $85. Hell I once got 2 pairs for $65.00. Gotta love sales.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Some days i look like something out of an A&F/Hollister/Aero/AE catalogue, others i look like an up and coming rockstar. Sometimes, i do both and mix 'em.
 

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well theres a diff for me for what id like to wear and what i do lol, cause when i wear what i want people think im dressing to old, but mainly i wear alot of A & F, and AE stuff, levi jeans or A & F Jeans, always jeans and polos, sweaters or button up shirt. i try to go for more fitted stuff shows off some of my muscle, i dont wear anything jewlery wise, but i have rayban sunglasses i wear often.
 

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Trend said:
What does everyone wear on a daily basis to attract the ladies and why

I wear girl pants and tight shirts, because one I'm skinny, two girls like it for some odd reason, and three because it shows off my man meat. After I started dressing like this I started getting way more numbers and stuff like that.

So how do you dress and why do you dress that way
you fail you emo tard.
 

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DogFashionDisco said:
Dude, all you gotta do is find an outlet mall nearby (that isn't ****ty), and they'll have some good brands for less. That and look for sales. That's what I do alot. Other than Club Monaco and FCUK, I rarely pay full price for those brands (besides Gap, cause they're cheap as it is).

And most of the Guess jeans I've bought were under $85. Hell I once got 2 pairs for $65.00. Gotta love sales.
Great suggestion! I'll be doing that! Thanks!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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