"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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so how do you personally keep stuff going while your too busy with life to make plans

Dante420

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for some time? I'd imagine you gotta keep interest in people in different ways if your not talking about making plans, so we can all agree theres no point to be talking to them, yet you must keep interest while not letting yourself lose stock and fall into the friend zone. kind of puts you in an interesting position
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Your really absolutely so busy you can't make plans? You work 24/7?
 

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Even busy people can MAKE time to enjoy themselves.
I was seeing a girl once who was constantly busy, full time student, worked till 11pm, and you know what she would do?

She would get off work, go home and shower, invite me over, and me and her friends would just go hang out till 1am driving around and listening to music.

Give up a little sleep and have a good time. Plenty of people do it, so why can't you? Why do you think clubs/bars are open from like 10pm to 3am?
 

Dante420

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Kal said:
Your really absolutely so busy you can't make plans? You work 24/7?
no i travel for extended periods of time and I got a few from back home hitting me a bit through various methods
 
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