"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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so how do you personally keep stuff going while your too busy with life to make plans

Dante420

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for some time? I'd imagine you gotta keep interest in people in different ways if your not talking about making plans, so we can all agree theres no point to be talking to them, yet you must keep interest while not letting yourself lose stock and fall into the friend zone. kind of puts you in an interesting position
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Your really absolutely so busy you can't make plans? You work 24/7?
 

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Even busy people can MAKE time to enjoy themselves.
I was seeing a girl once who was constantly busy, full time student, worked till 11pm, and you know what she would do?

She would get off work, go home and shower, invite me over, and me and her friends would just go hang out till 1am driving around and listening to music.

Give up a little sleep and have a good time. Plenty of people do it, so why can't you? Why do you think clubs/bars are open from like 10pm to 3am?
 

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Kal said:
Your really absolutely so busy you can't make plans? You work 24/7?
no i travel for extended periods of time and I got a few from back home hitting me a bit through various methods
 
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