"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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so how do you personally keep stuff going while your too busy with life to make plans

Dante420

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for some time? I'd imagine you gotta keep interest in people in different ways if your not talking about making plans, so we can all agree theres no point to be talking to them, yet you must keep interest while not letting yourself lose stock and fall into the friend zone. kind of puts you in an interesting position
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Your really absolutely so busy you can't make plans? You work 24/7?
 

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Even busy people can MAKE time to enjoy themselves.
I was seeing a girl once who was constantly busy, full time student, worked till 11pm, and you know what she would do?

She would get off work, go home and shower, invite me over, and me and her friends would just go hang out till 1am driving around and listening to music.

Give up a little sleep and have a good time. Plenty of people do it, so why can't you? Why do you think clubs/bars are open from like 10pm to 3am?
 

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Kal said:
Your really absolutely so busy you can't make plans? You work 24/7?
no i travel for extended periods of time and I got a few from back home hitting me a bit through various methods
 
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