So I think I have an idea of what it implies but anyway here's the deal. Since I hurt my back from lifting very heavily at the gym a couple weeks ago and have been doing physical therapy, I was joking with one of my co-workers that I just hope that in the long run it doesn't make me develop a hunch back. She laughed and said, "Oh, no! A guy as fresh as you? If such a thing were to happen, what are the girls going to do?" And I laughed back as well. This particular co-worker is a married woman and we're just friends but I tell you...human nature is amazing. You have to be really strong especially in the corporate realm when you're a man because some of these women act like marriage means absolutely nothing to them. If you don't have strong values, you're in trouble.
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
So How Do You All Interpret Being Called "Fresh" by Some Women in terms of Dating?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
True that.
It sounds like she finds your "freshness" to be refreshing and fun, as if you've got your teasing dialed in pretty well.
But to your comment about women in the workplace, I've got a couple of them after me in one of my offices that I do business with. Just last Wednesday I came in for the first time since back surgery, stopped by the HR girl's office (she's married but we have incredible chemistry), her eyes lit up and got wide as saucers and she jumped up and hugged me like nobody's business. If this girl were single I would scoop her up in a split second. Massively feminine yet intelligent and totally non-slvtty.
I would hate to think of my own wife being so friendly to other guys in the work environment.
It sounds like she finds your "freshness" to be refreshing and fun, as if you've got your teasing dialed in pretty well.
But to your comment about women in the workplace, I've got a couple of them after me in one of my offices that I do business with. Just last Wednesday I came in for the first time since back surgery, stopped by the HR girl's office (she's married but we have incredible chemistry), her eyes lit up and got wide as saucers and she jumped up and hugged me like nobody's business. If this girl were single I would scoop her up in a split second. Massively feminine yet intelligent and totally non-slvtty.
I would hate to think of my own wife being so friendly to other guys in the work environment.
Atom Smasher said:
hmm you say non-slutty, but the way you describe looks like she wouldn't care if you make her one, so I guess that is not truth
but having older married woman tossing compliments my way is not really a new thing, some I even wonder if i'm not feeling this wrong, but.... well I tell you its strange you wonder if you get one she would do it too, so why bother be serious she will do that?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
I mean non-slutty in bearing and appearance. She's in her early to mid thirties and I can see that she has to "fight" the chemistry and attraction that sizzles between us.Alvafe said:hmm you say non-slutty, but the way you describe looks like she wouldn't care if you make her one, so I guess that is not truth
but having older married woman tossing compliments my way is not really a new thing, some I even wonder if i'm not feeling this wrong, but.... well I tell you its strange you wonder if you get one she would do it too, so why bother be serious she will do that?
I honestly think that I would not be able to turn her into one for an evening... and there are very few women I can say that about. She would get caught up for a bit and then come to her senses and refuse my almost irresistible charms. That's probably one reason I like and respect her as a woman. There is a definite attraction there that cannot be helped and yet I doubt she would act on it. That's the kind of woman I want.
Kailex
Master Don Juan
Listen, I've been called "fresh", "sexual", a "hornball", a "fiery Latino", a "perv", "hypersexual", etc, etc, etc...
Guess which one of those I paid attention to?
None of the above.
I was paying more attention to (insert chick here) body language than to whatever the blue hell was coming out of her mouth.
Guess which one of those I paid attention to?
None of the above.
I was paying more attention to (insert chick here) body language than to whatever the blue hell was coming out of her mouth.
CaptCommando
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Never a bad thing. She likes what she sees.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Beats the piss out of them calling you a boring chump! They see you in a certain light favorable to you, so run with it.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
glass half full
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It seems a lot of women can be this way, until you get in a relationship with them. Then watch and see how "fresh" they are. To me, lots of them qualify as "the chase is better than the catch".
CaliMan007
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Fresh means she wants to jump your pants. She's married, so the guys she's with is old, boring, predictable. You are the new untested hot bait.