"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So Homecoming is coming up and...

bballkilla

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i dont have anyone to go with yet. im not talking to any girls right now, but there's a girl in my class who i wouldnt mind going with, i just have to get to know her pretty well or at least create attraction in less than 2 weeks.

can somebody please help me out? i would normally know what to do but i dont have a lot of time to work with now.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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shydude

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Just come up to her, the first day you see her, introduce yourself, and do it fast, couse she might be taken, or she might think you are not the guy for her, if you think she is for you, doesnt mean she will think the same. Start talking to her about stuff, about her life, and some bs... just talk, and listen to her.. ITs gonna be really boring but you cant just say to here "Shut the fk up b1tch" After that use little kinno, get her aim and phone number, go out a couple of times, then ask her wherever is it u wanna go,.
 

THE_ADDMAN

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that dont leave much time dude

you might have to settle, or go stag

but thats no reason not to try
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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shydude

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You have plenty of time, and if you think its not enough, then its better late than never
 

bballkilla

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so today i did the whole ec, smile, start up a convo thing but im still not sure if there's any attraction there yet. i guess i will throw in more c/f and push/pull tomorrow.
 
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