"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So Homecoming is coming up and...

bballkilla

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i dont have anyone to go with yet. im not talking to any girls right now, but there's a girl in my class who i wouldnt mind going with, i just have to get to know her pretty well or at least create attraction in less than 2 weeks.

can somebody please help me out? i would normally know what to do but i dont have a lot of time to work with now.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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shydude

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Just come up to her, the first day you see her, introduce yourself, and do it fast, couse she might be taken, or she might think you are not the guy for her, if you think she is for you, doesnt mean she will think the same. Start talking to her about stuff, about her life, and some bs... just talk, and listen to her.. ITs gonna be really boring but you cant just say to here "Shut the fk up b1tch" After that use little kinno, get her aim and phone number, go out a couple of times, then ask her wherever is it u wanna go,.
 

THE_ADDMAN

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that dont leave much time dude

you might have to settle, or go stag

but thats no reason not to try
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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shydude

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You have plenty of time, and if you think its not enough, then its better late than never
 

bballkilla

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so today i did the whole ec, smile, start up a convo thing but im still not sure if there's any attraction there yet. i guess i will throw in more c/f and push/pull tomorrow.
 
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