"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bballkilla

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i dont have anyone to go with yet. im not talking to any girls right now, but there's a girl in my class who i wouldnt mind going with, i just have to get to know her pretty well or at least create attraction in less than 2 weeks.

can somebody please help me out? i would normally know what to do but i dont have a lot of time to work with now.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just come up to her, the first day you see her, introduce yourself, and do it fast, couse she might be taken, or she might think you are not the guy for her, if you think she is for you, doesnt mean she will think the same. Start talking to her about stuff, about her life, and some bs... just talk, and listen to her.. ITs gonna be really boring but you cant just say to here "Shut the fk up b1tch" After that use little kinno, get her aim and phone number, go out a couple of times, then ask her wherever is it u wanna go,.
 
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that dont leave much time dude

you might have to settle, or go stag

but thats no reason not to try
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You have plenty of time, and if you think its not enough, then its better late than never
 
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so today i did the whole ec, smile, start up a convo thing but im still not sure if there's any attraction there yet. i guess i will throw in more c/f and push/pull tomorrow.
 
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