So Heres the Story...

[Castor_Troyy]

Hey all,
Hows life treatin ya?

This is for pure criticism/opinion that i tell you guys this.
Anyway, heres the story. This chick who has liked me for a while IMs me 2 days ago. We met in a class during my last semester of college, and one time she had come to class after having pre-gamed and she was all over me, so i know she liked me.

So she IMs me and says shes coming out to the mall in my area, so i say we should meet up. We meet up and walk around the mall, talkin about everything (i figure why not meet her there as women love to window shop so its good convo and lotsa opportunities for kino and teasing).

It was fun, and i was there to have fun, but open to the possibility of a kiss close . So i go for it, but get turned down haha. I made the mistake of not isolating her, and she said she "doesnt do PDAs."

So i tell her "ah that sucks", and am about to leave. She says i should definitely call to do something again, and i tell her "yea we'll see." I said we'll see because i am actually busy right now working and studying for the MCATs.

Basically i want some outside opinions, so my question is, should i call her to do something again? or just say next because it may seem shes not too interested (otherwise i wouldnt have been turned down :crazy: )

Appreciate it...

~Castor_Troyy

 

[true romance]

invite her to one of your activities..bowling, dance..etc

use kino, make her feel comfortable, lightheart and funny...be sexual..

try to kiss close again on 2nd date..kino kino then kiss close

 

[Castor_Troyy]

Thanks bud

 

[Microphone Fiend]

You made your move and she knows your intentions. If she asks to be put in that position again, make your move except this time go for the kiss in private.

 

[mtlwlu]

ya that happened to me with a girl, i went in for the kiss one night and got rejected, but then a few nights later isolated her and we made out. My best advice...keep playing YOUR game.

 

[WC2]

No worries man, it happens. The key is timing.

Those who are experienced rarely get turned down on a kiss close because :

1. He's created attraction

2. It's the right place and time

3. It's unexpected so she doesn't have time for her logic to get in the way of how she really feels.

I really don't think calling her again is necessary. I mean you've already showed attraction to her, but I don't think you've attracted her enough. Right now you're approaching her friendzone believe it or not, but give her a few days to think about why you haven't contacted her and the tables may turn.

Women thrive off attention and will toss out men who give them excess attention. Deep down, if they are attracted to a man they will give him more attention than he gives her.

 

[Castor_Troyy]

Thanks all, ill see what happens