"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So Heres the Story...

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Hey all,
Hows life treatin ya?

This is for pure criticism/opinion that i tell you guys this.
Anyway, heres the story. This chick who has liked me for a while IMs me 2 days ago. We met in a class during my last semester of college, and one time she had come to class after having pre-gamed and she was all over me, so i know she liked me.

So she IMs me and says shes coming out to the mall in my area, so i say we should meet up. We meet up and walk around the mall, talkin about everything (i figure why not meet her there as women love to window shop so its good convo and lotsa opportunities for kino and teasing).

It was fun, and i was there to have fun, but open to the possibility of a kiss close ;). So i go for it, but get turned down haha. I made the mistake of not isolating her, and she said she "doesnt do PDAs."

So i tell her "ah that sucks", and am about to leave. She says i should definitely call to do something again, and i tell her "yea we'll see." I said we'll see because i am actually busy right now working and studying for the MCATs.

Basically i want some outside opinions, so my question is, should i call her to do something again? or just say next because it may seem shes not too interested (otherwise i wouldnt have been turned down :crazy: )

Appreciate it...

~Castor_Troyy
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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invite her to one of your activities..bowling, dance..etc

use kino, make her feel comfortable, lightheart and funny...be sexual..

try to kiss close again on 2nd date..kino kino then kiss close
 
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You made your move and she knows your intentions. If she asks to be put in that position again, make your move except this time go for the kiss in private.
 
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ya that happened to me with a girl, i went in for the kiss one night and got rejected, but then a few nights later isolated her and we made out. My best advice...keep playing YOUR game.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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No worries man, it happens. The key is timing.

Those who are experienced rarely get turned down on a kiss close because :

1. He's created attraction

2. It's the right place and time

3. It's unexpected so she doesn't have time for her logic to get in the way of how she really feels.

I really don't think calling her again is necessary. I mean you've already showed attraction to her, but I don't think you've attracted her enough. Right now you're approaching her friendzone believe it or not, but give her a few days to think about why you haven't contacted her and the tables may turn.

Women thrive off attention and will toss out men who give them excess attention. Deep down, if they are attracted to a man they will give him more attention than he gives her.
 
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