So hard to "not care"

[NeW2TheGame]

Sorry if this comes across as spam, but man...is it me or is it really hard to let it go/not care?

I'm saying this because i just came back from lunch with a girl, when i dropped her off she said "we better do this again sometime", god knows when "sometime" is......sigh

I know you guys think i should probably play it cool, and not act desperate...but damn it's so hard

That was the second time we went out together by the way...

Anyone "feel" what i am saying? And any advices on how i should go about the next step?

Cheers.

 

[Obsidian]

once these events become more commonplace, you stop worrying so much about each one. Just keep with it.

And read the Book of Pook if you haven't yet.

 

[NeW2TheGame]

But the more i go to these 'events", the more "friend" i seem, and thats exactly what i don't want?

 

[Obsidian]

Your question was how to feel less. You feel less by hanging out with girls constantly so they aren't as novel to you. This has nothing to do with friendship. Over time you will gain confidence by being suave constantly.


As for your second question: If you've gone out with this girl twice and she said she wants to do it again, then ask her out again. I'd wait maybe a week (and during that week, look around for other girls to date).

 

[ChrizZ]

Don´t be scared to take it to the next level. Life has a lot to offer for the ones who have the courage to ask for it. So just go for it!

 

[Kev07]

you can care, just don't show it

 

[hot-male.com]

whats "neg hits?"

 

[NeW2TheGame]

well you just killed my thread....