"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So hacked off at myself

TheMonkeyKing

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Got on the train this morning. Really, really hot birdy got on at the same time - probably a 8.5-9 on a causal Friday morning. Made-up I would say she'd be pushing a 9.5 on the visual.

She looked at me getting on the train and kind of wry smile. And again a couple more times while on the train, looked back again as she got off the train and looked again having got off at her stop, again with the wry smiles.

I did nothing. Nearly got off the train to chase her. But didn't. I feel physically sick. Gotta get on the train again until I see her again. AAHHHHH!!

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sylvester the cat

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so you should be. missed opportunity.

learn from it and don't make the same mistake.

forget her though. abundance mentality.
 

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Dissociate HER from the situation. You'll see girls like her again - it's the opportunity to improve your life you really missed.
 

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I hate when this happens. I just freeze up and get too in my head. This is one of the reasons why I'm just trying to become more sociable. If you naturally just chat to people and shoot the shït, this sort of thing would be just another chat of many that you have during the day. Lesson learnt.
 

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I remember those days when that would happen to me.
if anything it should be a confidence boost for you because now you know that hbs want your attention.

good for you.

next time, if you can't talk to her for your own sake, at least do it for us. Lol jk
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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