"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So Guys are complaining about having too many attractive female friends.

TheLoner

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While I have no girlfriend, no friends at all male or female.

In the lonely city of Chicago.
I have no hope of getting a girlfriend because I have no friends.

So first in order to get a girlfriend, I must make some friends.

How are guys complaining about having too many female friends
and finding them annoying.

I'm sure many of you guys wish you had that problem.

No girls talk to me period ever.

I said hi to Sandy from my soccer team, but she gives me one
word responses back and never initiates any conversation.

If a girl gave me the time of day I would be happy.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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foreverAFC

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"I'm a loner Dottie, a rebel."
 

Bumsniff

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TheLoner said:
While I have no girlfriend, no friends at all male or female.

In the lonely city of Chicago.
I have no hope of getting a girlfriend because I have no friends.

So first in order to get a girlfriend, I must make some friends.

How are guys complaining about having too many female friends
and finding them annoying.

I'm sure many of you guys wish you had that problem.

No girls talk to me period ever.

I said hi to Sandy from my soccer team, but she gives me one
word responses back and never initiates any conversation.

If a girl gave me the time of day I would be happy.

Being Theloner with no girls in the windy city of chicago must blow. I bet you get theboner during a nice breeze.
 

Mike32ct

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Make friends with guys first*.

IME, men are less shallow.

Then once you are more cool/popular with the guys, you'll have somewhat more social proof to make girls curious about you.

*This all assumes you have a social circle to work with, such as a class or something like that.
 

twentee

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get off your dead ass and make something of yourself. work on your body. MAKE some weights. all it takes is a bike ride to the scrap yard for some hunks of pipe, 1 gallon jugs full of water or sand for weight, or even just calesthenics. Plenty of books on how to do it, at the FREE local library.

Plenty of schools available to teach you a martial art, too. Lots of books about guns, shooting. become skilled, knowledgable, and guys will notice, whiuch will cause women to notice. I've had MANY women either come straight to me for training, or decided to do so after seeing/hearing "their men" do so. But you DO have to be "real deal" highly competent at the subject matter, AND a patient, skilled teacher. Sititng around crying accomplishes nothing, so you deseve nothing.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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evan12

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Are u Immigrant ,if so things will be 4 times difficult
 

pdx1138

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OP, you THINK you are a failure so you become one.

Knock it off, get your ass in gear, do some workouts or exercise, get the endorphins/positive energy going.

I have 2 best friends I trust my life with and thats it. Lots of people I know but I don't hang out with them hardly at all.

Having a social circle helps, but I've managed to have a few girl friends over the years with only 2 good buddies that had nothing to do with meeting/dating them.

It was when my attitude changed (and learning stuff here) that I finally got some tail on a regular basis.

You might consider joining all the free online dating sites. That's where I started and did well with.
There's tons of women in Chicago...now get to it!
 
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