"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So Guys are complaining about having too many attractive female friends.

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While I have no girlfriend, no friends at all male or female.

In the lonely city of Chicago.
I have no hope of getting a girlfriend because I have no friends.

So first in order to get a girlfriend, I must make some friends.

How are guys complaining about having too many female friends
and finding them annoying.

I'm sure many of you guys wish you had that problem.

No girls talk to me period ever.

I said hi to Sandy from my soccer team, but she gives me one
word responses back and never initiates any conversation.

If a girl gave me the time of day I would be happy.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"I'm a loner Dottie, a rebel."
 
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TheLoner said:
While I have no girlfriend, no friends at all male or female.

In the lonely city of Chicago.
I have no hope of getting a girlfriend because I have no friends.

So first in order to get a girlfriend, I must make some friends.

How are guys complaining about having too many female friends
and finding them annoying.

I'm sure many of you guys wish you had that problem.

No girls talk to me period ever.

I said hi to Sandy from my soccer team, but she gives me one
word responses back and never initiates any conversation.

If a girl gave me the time of day I would be happy.
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Being Theloner with no girls in the windy city of chicago must blow. I bet you get theboner during a nice breeze.
 
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Make friends with guys first*.

IME, men are less shallow.

Then once you are more cool/popular with the guys, you'll have somewhat more social proof to make girls curious about you.

*This all assumes you have a social circle to work with, such as a class or something like that.
 
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get off your dead ass and make something of yourself. work on your body. MAKE some weights. all it takes is a bike ride to the scrap yard for some hunks of pipe, 1 gallon jugs full of water or sand for weight, or even just calesthenics. Plenty of books on how to do it, at the FREE local library.

Plenty of schools available to teach you a martial art, too. Lots of books about guns, shooting. become skilled, knowledgable, and guys will notice, whiuch will cause women to notice. I've had MANY women either come straight to me for training, or decided to do so after seeing/hearing "their men" do so. But you DO have to be "real deal" highly competent at the subject matter, AND a patient, skilled teacher. Sititng around crying accomplishes nothing, so you deseve nothing.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Are u Immigrant ,if so things will be 4 times difficult
 
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OP, you THINK you are a failure so you become one.

Knock it off, get your ass in gear, do some workouts or exercise, get the endorphins/positive energy going.

I have 2 best friends I trust my life with and thats it. Lots of people I know but I don't hang out with them hardly at all.

Having a social circle helps, but I've managed to have a few girl friends over the years with only 2 good buddies that had nothing to do with meeting/dating them.

It was when my attitude changed (and learning stuff here) that I finally got some tail on a regular basis.

You might consider joining all the free online dating sites. That's where I started and did well with.
There's tons of women in Chicago...now get to it!
 
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