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We been dating for while so jw
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
so guy said have her invest spend money on you. do i ask her to buy concert tickets?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
thelonewolflegend
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Bump plz
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Its 50 bux 2 tickets should i ask her tomorrow?
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Ok what do you mean? So how would i ask her tomorrow when i see her on getting the tickets??
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Bump
MillionBillionaire
Master Don Juan
Use the NLP! That shyts got to be good for something!
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Serious answers only im seeing her tomorrow
You tell her you'll buy the tickets if she treats for dinner. If she says no? Buy one for yourself and go alone if you really want to go. If she still wants to go and doesn't want to get dinner? She can buy her own ticket. Or she may promise to treat you next time. Its not a huge ordeal.thelonewolflegend said:
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Well ive treated dinner handufll of times already could i just ask her to get the tickets???
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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If you can sign up to So Suave, understand what you're reading, and then reply with nonsensical follow up questions, and or objections to the responses to your original question and or attempt to steer the conversation in every which way then having an answer that is acceptable to you then you can figure out what to do on your own.
You make up your own mind.
Either have her buy the tickets and you treat for dinner or you buy the tickets and she treats for dinner. If neither option works? Then just buy your own ticket and go by yourself.
This isn't pre-school. You are able to dress yourself no? Function without having everyone think for you? If so then make up your own mind. If not? Then you should be more concerned with your mental health than women and dates.
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I apolgize. Howcome i am like this though any clue? I was criends with a guy who was good with women and i constantly was asking him questions felt like i wanted his approval of my actions. Well i guess i can say get the tickets ill treat you to dinner??
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Ok cool so it doesnt matter how i word or say it just say thst????
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Unfortunately i cannot pick her up at moment not driving got in car wreck. So can i just not say that part?
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She will only buy the concert tickets if she really likes you. Girls don't invest money into guys they aren't serious about.
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Shes made me dinner a few times and when we go movies she bought us popcorn and drinks. Think its worth a short just one time try??
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.