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We been dating for while so jw
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
so guy said have her invest spend money on you. do i ask her to buy concert tickets?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Bump plz
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Its 50 bux 2 tickets should i ask her tomorrow?
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Ok what do you mean? So how would i ask her tomorrow when i see her on getting the tickets??
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Bump
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Use the NLP! That shyts got to be good for something!
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Serious answers only im seeing her tomorrow
You tell her you'll buy the tickets if she treats for dinner. If she says no? Buy one for yourself and go alone if you really want to go. If she still wants to go and doesn't want to get dinner? She can buy her own ticket. Or she may promise to treat you next time. Its not a huge ordeal.thelonewolflegend said:
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Well ive treated dinner handufll of times already could i just ask her to get the tickets???
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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If you can sign up to So Suave, understand what you're reading, and then reply with nonsensical follow up questions, and or objections to the responses to your original question and or attempt to steer the conversation in every which way then having an answer that is acceptable to you then you can figure out what to do on your own.
You make up your own mind.
Either have her buy the tickets and you treat for dinner or you buy the tickets and she treats for dinner. If neither option works? Then just buy your own ticket and go by yourself.
This isn't pre-school. You are able to dress yourself no? Function without having everyone think for you? If so then make up your own mind. If not? Then you should be more concerned with your mental health than women and dates.
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I apolgize. Howcome i am like this though any clue? I was criends with a guy who was good with women and i constantly was asking him questions felt like i wanted his approval of my actions. Well i guess i can say get the tickets ill treat you to dinner??
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Ok cool so it doesnt matter how i word or say it just say thst????
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Unfortunately i cannot pick her up at moment not driving got in car wreck. So can i just not say that part?
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She will only buy the concert tickets if she really likes you. Girls don't invest money into guys they aren't serious about.
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Shes made me dinner a few times and when we go movies she bought us popcorn and drinks. Think its worth a short just one time try??
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.