Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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SO goes to party without telling me, meeting up with a guy from party

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DonJuanabe

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Is what she did respectful or disrespectful to you? It is disrespectful. A woman cannot love a man she does not respect.

What should be going through her mind is "If I hang out with this guy at the bar and flirt with him how will my BF feel? Oh, that would be disrespectful so I won't do that." Or, better yet, "I love my BF and have no desire to hang out with some guy at a bar flirting and drinking."
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DonJuanabe said:
Is what she did respectful or disrespectful to you? It is disrespectful. A woman cannot love a man she does not respect.

What should be going through her mind is "If I hang out with this guy at the bar and flirt with him how will my BF feel? Oh, that would be disrespectful so I won't do that." Or, better yet, "I love my BF and have no desire to hang out with some guy at a bar flirting and drinking."
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Thanks, well put

Do you think there could be any chance she would not flirt with him and try to friendzone him?
 
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