"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SO goes to party without telling me, meeting up with a guy from party

DonJuanabe

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Is what she did respectful or disrespectful to you? It is disrespectful. A woman cannot love a man she does not respect.

What should be going through her mind is "If I hang out with this guy at the bar and flirt with him how will my BF feel? Oh, that would be disrespectful so I won't do that." Or, better yet, "I love my BF and have no desire to hang out with some guy at a bar flirting and drinking."
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DonJuanabe said:
Is what she did respectful or disrespectful to you? It is disrespectful. A woman cannot love a man she does not respect.

What should be going through her mind is "If I hang out with this guy at the bar and flirt with him how will my BF feel? Oh, that would be disrespectful so I won't do that." Or, better yet, "I love my BF and have no desire to hang out with some guy at a bar flirting and drinking."
Thanks, well put

Do you think there could be any chance she would not flirt with him and try to friendzone him?
 
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