"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SO goes to party without telling me, meeting up with a guy from party

DonJuanabe

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Is what she did respectful or disrespectful to you? It is disrespectful. A woman cannot love a man she does not respect.

What should be going through her mind is "If I hang out with this guy at the bar and flirt with him how will my BF feel? Oh, that would be disrespectful so I won't do that." Or, better yet, "I love my BF and have no desire to hang out with some guy at a bar flirting and drinking."
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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roflzaur

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DonJuanabe said:
Is what she did respectful or disrespectful to you? It is disrespectful. A woman cannot love a man she does not respect.

What should be going through her mind is "If I hang out with this guy at the bar and flirt with him how will my BF feel? Oh, that would be disrespectful so I won't do that." Or, better yet, "I love my BF and have no desire to hang out with some guy at a bar flirting and drinking."
Thanks, well put

Do you think there could be any chance she would not flirt with him and try to friendzone him?
 
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