Tonight at work was the first time I saw/spoke to the woman who I want to be with since I took her to lunch last week Wednesday. She was off Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday and I was off Monday.
Starts off by her waving hi to me and I waved back, when she came by me I told her Hi how are you and she tells me how am I and I just respond good, I asked her how her weekend was and she says she went bowling and went to a bbq. we just talk about a lot of things... After lunch she introduces me to her friend who she talks too a lot and I was puzzled why is she introducing me to her and I was assuming that she probably talks to her about me and assuming she likes me. So after that we go back to our work area we talk while walking there and I finally told her "I just want to mention I really enjoyed spending time with you during lunch last week" and she responds "Aww...Thank you...Same here." and she then says something like "I told my friend it really makes a difference who you're working with" but I dunno what that meant I guess when she works with me she is happy cause the time flies since she enjoys talking to me. So right now we're in the "friends zone" I guess, but I know deep down in her she knows I have a crush on her, So far I've complimented her hair when she put it up and she continues to do it frequently now. Invited her to lunch and paid.
She even askes me "Does the guys make fun of you because you hang out/talk to me a lot?" and I just respond saying "Yeah, sort of... They are immature, I just ignore them" So then we just talk a lot of stories like I told her on Friday it took me 30 minutes to get home because there was an accident just random stuff we talk about throughout the day... I also mentioned to her about the "rumors" the guys are saying to me and she was interested to find out like when she was off for the 4 day weekend, they kept telling me bull**** like how she likes to get drunk and drinking heinikin so I told her "You know everything you tell Ben goes right to those guys you know" Ben is this guy she talks to they are good friends too and he's off work for like 6 weeks because his wife gave birth, but anyway I said everything she tells him goes right to those guys and she started asking me like what and like I told her about the time he had the keys to her truck when she went to a concert a few months ago he invited them all in the truck and ****... Not sure if this will impact my chances with her but anyway, when she had to leave she says "Alright I'm going now, see you tomorrow" and I just say "Okay, see you tomorrow... bye" and she's off.
Now, I know she must have a thing for me because when she felt flattered when I told her I enjoyed spending time with her and she said "same here" so that means she enjoyed spending time with me as well. I want to go out with her again but NOT for lunch because it's not enough time, lunch is only 30 minutes and to drive to somewhere and to drive back, it's real real short amount of time we can spend together. So I want to maybe ask her out for Sunday since she's off weekends and I'll just ask for Sunday off. What's a good thing to do in my situation?? I Just don't want to ruin anything and have her not talk to me at all cause I know some people who start off being real close to a girl and when he tells her that he wants to be with her and **** she just doesn't talk to the guy anymore. So I just want to keep everything smooth and maybe say "Lets get together and do something sometime" and if she syas "What" then like say "I can pick you up on Sunday and we can do things together" I don't know, Any advice I would appreciate for my situation at hand. Thank you.
Starts off by her waving hi to me and I waved back, when she came by me I told her Hi how are you and she tells me how am I and I just respond good, I asked her how her weekend was and she says she went bowling and went to a bbq. we just talk about a lot of things... After lunch she introduces me to her friend who she talks too a lot and I was puzzled why is she introducing me to her and I was assuming that she probably talks to her about me and assuming she likes me. So after that we go back to our work area we talk while walking there and I finally told her "I just want to mention I really enjoyed spending time with you during lunch last week" and she responds "Aww...Thank you...Same here." and she then says something like "I told my friend it really makes a difference who you're working with" but I dunno what that meant I guess when she works with me she is happy cause the time flies since she enjoys talking to me. So right now we're in the "friends zone" I guess, but I know deep down in her she knows I have a crush on her, So far I've complimented her hair when she put it up and she continues to do it frequently now. Invited her to lunch and paid.
She even askes me "Does the guys make fun of you because you hang out/talk to me a lot?" and I just respond saying "Yeah, sort of... They are immature, I just ignore them" So then we just talk a lot of stories like I told her on Friday it took me 30 minutes to get home because there was an accident just random stuff we talk about throughout the day... I also mentioned to her about the "rumors" the guys are saying to me and she was interested to find out like when she was off for the 4 day weekend, they kept telling me bull**** like how she likes to get drunk and drinking heinikin so I told her "You know everything you tell Ben goes right to those guys you know" Ben is this guy she talks to they are good friends too and he's off work for like 6 weeks because his wife gave birth, but anyway I said everything she tells him goes right to those guys and she started asking me like what and like I told her about the time he had the keys to her truck when she went to a concert a few months ago he invited them all in the truck and ****... Not sure if this will impact my chances with her but anyway, when she had to leave she says "Alright I'm going now, see you tomorrow" and I just say "Okay, see you tomorrow... bye" and she's off.
Now, I know she must have a thing for me because when she felt flattered when I told her I enjoyed spending time with her and she said "same here" so that means she enjoyed spending time with me as well. I want to go out with her again but NOT for lunch because it's not enough time, lunch is only 30 minutes and to drive to somewhere and to drive back, it's real real short amount of time we can spend together. So I want to maybe ask her out for Sunday since she's off weekends and I'll just ask for Sunday off. What's a good thing to do in my situation?? I Just don't want to ruin anything and have her not talk to me at all cause I know some people who start off being real close to a girl and when he tells her that he wants to be with her and **** she just doesn't talk to the guy anymore. So I just want to keep everything smooth and maybe say "Lets get together and do something sometime" and if she syas "What" then like say "I can pick you up on Sunday and we can do things together" I don't know, Any advice I would appreciate for my situation at hand. Thank you.