So close, give me the last push now!

[Zeus]

I have one problem thats holding me back from all the glory thats waiting for me, if i can overcome this.. The sky is the limit for me.

To break it down: I have seduced a good share off woman, and i feel damn good afterwards the confidence is sky high. But it like i still got this demon, this AFC **** in my head. It like that if i dont approach/pick up a girl in a couple of days i lose all the confindence and start to belive "oh shes good to me", "shes not intresed".. you know pure bull****. When i deep inside know that iam the great catch, i can ****ing seduce anyone,but the confindence is gone so it makes it so much harder.

So how can i find that little extra confindence when it all feels impossible?

 

[Sean O]

You seem to still think that you need to prove to yourself that you can get women. All you need to do is realize that you've already gotten more than enough proof of that. Just remind yourself of all the women who have ever liked you. It wasn't all a coincidence, bro - they liked you because you are a great catch! You don't need to verify that anymore constantly by getting a new number every couple of days; it's just who you are .

 

[Zeus]

Hehe yeah Sean, i like the sound of that

 

[Phyzzle]

Here's a question that might straighten your head:

i lose all the confindence and start to belive "oh shes good to me", "shes not intresed".. you know pure bull****. When i deep inside know that iam the great catch

What makes you such a great catch? What is it exactly that makes you better than the last 10 guys you've met?

 

[zerocelcius]

I have one problem thats holding me back from all the glory thats waiting for me, if i can overcome this.. The sky is the limit for me.

To break it down: I have seduced a good share off woman, and i feel damn good afterwards the confidence is sky high. But it like i still got this demon, this AFC **** in my head. It like that if i dont approach/pick up a girl in a couple of days i lose all the confidence and start to believe "oh shes good to me", "shes not intresed".. you know pure bull****. When i deep inside know that iam the great catch, i can ****ing seduce anyone, but the confidence is gone so it makes it so much harder.

So how can i find that little extra confindence when it all feels impossible?

Quit caring! Each time you need a push grab your balls and tell yourself your not a chick your a man!! Nike said it best "Just Do It"!!

 

[Sean O]

What makes you such a great catch? What is it exactly that makes you better than the last 10 guys you've met?

I should add to this a little, just so that you don't misinterpret what Phyzzle meant. He's not trying to talk down to you; he's trying to get you to list to yourself the qualities that make you an attractive man. And it's a good strategy. The more aware you are of your attractive qualities, the easier it will be to accept yourself as an attractive person.