"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So Chilled With a Girl All Day, Was Gettin' With Her. Then We Went to a Party. . .

Dante420

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Chillin with this girl all day, she was loving it and into me. I was getting with her, or should I say she was getting with me, but then we went to a party and she just began responding positively to another guy flirting with her.

As soon as I noticed this I just took my last drink and walked to the other room, this party wasn't popping or nothing. Just sat down, then she came up to me and started talking to me and sat on my lap. Then later she was telling me not to leave and stuff but ya.


Basically, another kid was working his game successfully on a girl I was getting with and I don't know how to react to that. Matter of fact I don't know why she wasn't more excited about me now that she finally got a chance to chill with me

What's the Don Juan way to react to such a situation: You been chilling with her all day and then she's all over someone else and you.

Definitely not impressed and she's not commitment-quality but I do still have a desire to **** this girl. I don't think she's that skilled in bed but I think she'd be able to pick up a lot off of me and pass it off as her own.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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evoken

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React by not reacting - indifference.

Then find another hot b1tch and flirt with her right in the other girl's face haha. :up:
 

Bluewater7

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Ya... and a HOTTER one at that. You can ALWAYS upgrade. I think 3.5 billion females roaming around in the world. And new ones turning 18 all the time. And, as a guy, age doesn't matter. You will ALWAYS be able to find a hotter girl if one is acting like a fool.
 
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