"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So Chilled With a Girl All Day, Was Gettin' With Her. Then We Went to a Party. . .

Dante420

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Chillin with this girl all day, she was loving it and into me. I was getting with her, or should I say she was getting with me, but then we went to a party and she just began responding positively to another guy flirting with her.

As soon as I noticed this I just took my last drink and walked to the other room, this party wasn't popping or nothing. Just sat down, then she came up to me and started talking to me and sat on my lap. Then later she was telling me not to leave and stuff but ya.


Basically, another kid was working his game successfully on a girl I was getting with and I don't know how to react to that. Matter of fact I don't know why she wasn't more excited about me now that she finally got a chance to chill with me

What's the Don Juan way to react to such a situation: You been chilling with her all day and then she's all over someone else and you.

Definitely not impressed and she's not commitment-quality but I do still have a desire to **** this girl. I don't think she's that skilled in bed but I think she'd be able to pick up a lot off of me and pass it off as her own.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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evoken

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React by not reacting - indifference.

Then find another hot b1tch and flirt with her right in the other girl's face haha. :up:
 

Bluewater7

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Ya... and a HOTTER one at that. You can ALWAYS upgrade. I think 3.5 billion females roaming around in the world. And new ones turning 18 all the time. And, as a guy, age doesn't matter. You will ALWAYS be able to find a hotter girl if one is acting like a fool.
 
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