Ok I was at a party last night and I was talking to this one girl. Things were going very smoothly, she was laughing and having a good time and there was plenty of kino. She bought me a couple of drinks and everything was going well but later when she got a little bit more drunk she ended up being a lot less into me and kind of distant. Ofcourse I did what the teachings suggest, I just thought it being her loss and moved on. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to avoid this type of outcome in the future? It could be that the booze just made her less responsive or that I messed it up at some stage.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
So bad when this happens. HELP
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