Ok I was at a party last night and I was talking to this one girl. Things were going very smoothly, she was laughing and having a good time and there was plenty of kino. She bought me a couple of drinks and everything was going well but later when she got a little bit more drunk she ended up being a lot less into me and kind of distant. Ofcourse I did what the teachings suggest, I just thought it being her loss and moved on. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to avoid this type of outcome in the future? It could be that the booze just made her less responsive or that I messed it up at some stage.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
So bad when this happens. HELP
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