tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
Hey, everyone... figured I'd stop replying to threads and start my own here. Little situation happened last week I'd want you all to weigh in on.
I was at a bar/ restaurant with my friends when a girl we had graduated with walked in. She look breathtakingly gorgeous, "HB9.9" if you will.
After a quick nod to acknowledge her (we were buddies in high school, nothing more) I walked by her table to quickly say hello and ask how her family was doing.
The first thing she mentioned was that she got a huge kick out of an old picture I posted on Facebook of me and her from high school. She seemed very sincere, judging that she commented on it when I initially posted it and after seeing me in person.
She told me to sit down (her friends hadn't gotten there yet) and said I could help myself to the appetizer she had ordered. We started some small talk, basically the old post high school update. I did relatively well maintaining eye contact and exuding confidence, but I didn't hit her with anything that could be considered flirtatious or Don Juanish.
Then, pretty much out of nowhere, she bluntly says "are you single?". I gave her the standard "playing the field" response (that I learned here) and reciprocated the question. She said she was single too. We then talked about how it was crazy that other kids we had graduated with were getting engaged while we were both available. And... that was kinda how we left that subject.
Her friends eventually arrived and I went back to where I was sitting at the bar. I tried a number-close which basically turned into a generic "call me sometime" kinda thing and that we'd keep in touch. For the record, she didn't refuse to give me her number (I used to have it in high school), I just closed kinda sloppy and didn't ask for her digits outright. That's nerves in action for ya.
So, what's the verdict? Was she being friendly, or did she seem interested? I'd like to hear some opinions.
I was at a bar/ restaurant with my friends when a girl we had graduated with walked in. She look breathtakingly gorgeous, "HB9.9" if you will.
After a quick nod to acknowledge her (we were buddies in high school, nothing more) I walked by her table to quickly say hello and ask how her family was doing.
The first thing she mentioned was that she got a huge kick out of an old picture I posted on Facebook of me and her from high school. She seemed very sincere, judging that she commented on it when I initially posted it and after seeing me in person.
She told me to sit down (her friends hadn't gotten there yet) and said I could help myself to the appetizer she had ordered. We started some small talk, basically the old post high school update. I did relatively well maintaining eye contact and exuding confidence, but I didn't hit her with anything that could be considered flirtatious or Don Juanish.
Then, pretty much out of nowhere, she bluntly says "are you single?". I gave her the standard "playing the field" response (that I learned here) and reciprocated the question. She said she was single too. We then talked about how it was crazy that other kids we had graduated with were getting engaged while we were both available. And... that was kinda how we left that subject.
Her friends eventually arrived and I went back to where I was sitting at the bar. I tried a number-close which basically turned into a generic "call me sometime" kinda thing and that we'd keep in touch. For the record, she didn't refuse to give me her number (I used to have it in high school), I just closed kinda sloppy and didn't ask for her digits outright. That's nerves in action for ya.
So, what's the verdict? Was she being friendly, or did she seem interested? I'd like to hear some opinions.
