"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So are some women afraid of the phone of something?

Raikojo17

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You know something i don't get?? It's women

Not just any woman, but the women who will sit and text you all day long, but when you get tired of typing and call them instead, they disappear completely.

I don't get how me and you can be so flirty and friendly behind words, but when it comes times to talk it's like i don't exist.

It's so stupid. why sit and type crap on a phone all day to which you could have said yourself in 5 seconds?

I don't get it. Are they afraid to talk or something? I don't stand for this crap because it's so irritating. When they don't answer, i erase their number and forget them because obviously talking with your voice is a scaring thing.

lol if a woman doesn't have the decency to talk in person or on the phone then i don't have the decency to fool with them
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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S.Y.L

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I know what you mean, its like they are nervous to talk.
 

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Yeah it's weird. Could be that they're with friends or something and don't want to talk in front of them or whatever. Guess they could just answer and say they can't talk right now though
 

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It's just another layer of privacy between them and you. When she talks to you, you can hear her voice inflection and better read what she means. If you meet in person, you can read her body language,hear her inflection and the words she says. SO if she won't call and talk-she's not that interested in you knowing her.

KInd of like a woman letting you see her in a burka vs, a bikini -you dont hide as much in the bikini.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DonGorgon

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most women have soo many men calling them that if they picked up every time they would never get anything else done... but how often she answers ur calls lets u know how high u are on her priority list...
 

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Pull back and stop texting so much. Or when she texts you, text back "call me" your giving her everything she wants over text, why should she call you?
 

Raikojo17

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Warrior74 said:
Pull back and stop texting so much. Or when she texts you, text back "call me" your giving her everything she wants over text, why should she call you?

Lol because texting is Geeey

If a chick won't talk in person or with her voice that god gave her, then i write her off as Uninterested

How can you feel completely satisfied with a person from behind a block of words?

If a chick isn't willing to talk aside from texting you then she must not have been that interested in getting to know you in the first place
 
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