"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So are some women afraid of the phone of something?

Raikojo17

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You know something i don't get?? It's women

Not just any woman, but the women who will sit and text you all day long, but when you get tired of typing and call them instead, they disappear completely.

I don't get how me and you can be so flirty and friendly behind words, but when it comes times to talk it's like i don't exist.

It's so stupid. why sit and type crap on a phone all day to which you could have said yourself in 5 seconds?

I don't get it. Are they afraid to talk or something? I don't stand for this crap because it's so irritating. When they don't answer, i erase their number and forget them because obviously talking with your voice is a scaring thing.

lol if a woman doesn't have the decency to talk in person or on the phone then i don't have the decency to fool with them
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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S.Y.L

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I know what you mean, its like they are nervous to talk.
 

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Yeah it's weird. Could be that they're with friends or something and don't want to talk in front of them or whatever. Guess they could just answer and say they can't talk right now though
 

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It's just another layer of privacy between them and you. When she talks to you, you can hear her voice inflection and better read what she means. If you meet in person, you can read her body language,hear her inflection and the words she says. SO if she won't call and talk-she's not that interested in you knowing her.

KInd of like a woman letting you see her in a burka vs, a bikini -you dont hide as much in the bikini.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DonGorgon

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most women have soo many men calling them that if they picked up every time they would never get anything else done... but how often she answers ur calls lets u know how high u are on her priority list...
 

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Pull back and stop texting so much. Or when she texts you, text back "call me" your giving her everything she wants over text, why should she call you?
 

Raikojo17

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Warrior74 said:
Pull back and stop texting so much. Or when she texts you, text back "call me" your giving her everything she wants over text, why should she call you?

Lol because texting is Geeey

If a chick won't talk in person or with her voice that god gave her, then i write her off as Uninterested

How can you feel completely satisfied with a person from behind a block of words?

If a chick isn't willing to talk aside from texting you then she must not have been that interested in getting to know you in the first place
 
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