"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So are some women afraid of the phone of something?

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Raikojo17

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You know something i don't get?? It's women

Not just any woman, but the women who will sit and text you all day long, but when you get tired of typing and call them instead, they disappear completely.

I don't get how me and you can be so flirty and friendly behind words, but when it comes times to talk it's like i don't exist.

It's so stupid. why sit and type crap on a phone all day to which you could have said yourself in 5 seconds?

I don't get it. Are they afraid to talk or something? I don't stand for this crap because it's so irritating. When they don't answer, i erase their number and forget them because obviously talking with your voice is a scaring thing.

lol if a woman doesn't have the decency to talk in person or on the phone then i don't have the decency to fool with them
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I know what you mean, its like they are nervous to talk.
 
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Yeah it's weird. Could be that they're with friends or something and don't want to talk in front of them or whatever. Guess they could just answer and say they can't talk right now though
 
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It's just another layer of privacy between them and you. When she talks to you, you can hear her voice inflection and better read what she means. If you meet in person, you can read her body language,hear her inflection and the words she says. SO if she won't call and talk-she's not that interested in you knowing her.

KInd of like a woman letting you see her in a burka vs, a bikini -you dont hide as much in the bikini.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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most women have soo many men calling them that if they picked up every time they would never get anything else done... but how often she answers ur calls lets u know how high u are on her priority list...
 
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Pull back and stop texting so much. Or when she texts you, text back "call me" your giving her everything she wants over text, why should she call you?
 
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Warrior74 said:
Pull back and stop texting so much. Or when she texts you, text back "call me" your giving her everything she wants over text, why should she call you?
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Lol because texting is Geeey

If a chick won't talk in person or with her voice that god gave her, then i write her off as Uninterested

How can you feel completely satisfied with a person from behind a block of words?

If a chick isn't willing to talk aside from texting you then she must not have been that interested in getting to know you in the first place
 
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