So apparently using online communication is taboo?

[Flabbergasped?]

I invited a friend to an event through an online message (facebook, if it matters) because I lost her number and I don't see her much during the day. All my friends are giving me sh!t tho, saying it will be seen as an act of cowardice and she will be turned off. They've gone as far as to say I should find the number/find her, tell her the message was a prank by a roommate, and ask directly. Is any of this warranted, or are they just being tools?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Did you at least ask for her to give you her number again?

 

[Cod3r]

All of you who use...

1. MySpace
2. Facebook
3. Friendster
4. Match.com
5. Adult Personal Ads
6. Whatever else is out there...

As a means to meet women ARE pathetic... IMHO


Meet women like most normal men, go to a bar and sarge drunk chicks :rockon:


-Cod3r

 

[WC2]

All of you who use...

1. MySpace
2. Facebook
3. Friendster
4. Match.com
5. Adult Personal Ads
6. Whatever else is out there...

As a means to meet women ARE pathetic... IMHO


Meet women like most normal men, go to a bar and sarge drunk chicks :rockon:


-Cod3r

Totally agree other than sarging on drunk chicks.. I prefer a challenge, not a one sided victory. There are some that will swear to myspace or online resources because it's easy and doesn't require you to confront someone. It's only delaying the inevitable. If you want quality girls and you want to make yourself look like a quality guy, then approach women in real life. Besides, why are you thinking so much about this girl? If you're putting your mind to one girl for an extended period of time, it's obviously not going to work.

 

[Cod3r]

^ Yeah the drunk sarging comment was subtle sarcasm...

I prefer them high and/or very aloof <-- Again joke, i'm in a funny mood today


-Cod3r

 

[Flabbergasped?]

Yea, I guess I'm getting kinda one-itis, but it'll pass in like a few minutes.

By the way, I'm not using it to meet people. I already know this person, I'm just using it as a means of communication.

 

[aelux]

Two months ago I would have said the same thing as coder but my younger brother found a HB on myspace and they're dating pretty seriously now. She's cute too.

BUT he was on myspace for awhile trying to get girls with no luck. Took a break. Came back on with pics from his surfing adventure and got a ton of responses when he messaged with some silly "diver looking for deep sea aquatic love."

 

[Demon]

... I'm just using it as a means of communication.

Transmitting data and communicating are very different activities.