Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I always thought 5-6" was normal too. But anyway, yeah if she's a size queen then she's seen her fair share of them and you should probably find someone else to stick it in.casaanova said:5-6 inches is average. If a girl insists that its too small then shes already been around the block a few too many times. In other words her sh*t is worn out and u dont want it anyway
foreverAFC said:you arent laying the pipe correctly
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
thisHowiestern said:I'd just fart on her face and see how she liked that.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
This is what I think. I don't have any studies to back this up, but I'm thinking most of these natural types who are always banging different girls have large schlongs. Sort of like when you see an attractive girl with a large set of boobs, most of the times these girls have a lot of sex. I think it's the same way with the guys.JdelaSilviera said:guys who are naturals with girls, many of them have huge d1cks that give them confidence. With the c*ck carrousel from these days (with many naturals/alphas) these girls will have sexual experiences with very big guys, so they will find you small.
You could say something about her boobs being too small, or lopsided, or saggy, or she has ugly areolas, or whatever. I agree she will be more freaked out about it than you will.JdelaSilviera said:The next time a girl tries to offend you with something physical, do the same to her. Believe me she´ll be much more affected
orVladPatton said:Girl: Your penis is pretty small
You: You know, that reminds me...I was just gonna ask you "why the fück is your puṣṣy so goddamn ginormous???" Does that thing come with a GPS?
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