"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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So am I ugly or what (beautiful pictures)

Marvin Gaye

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Negative thoughts down the drain just relax, let t
I'm lucky I found this site at 17, most guys deal with sh!tty dating lives but I have the tools for success at an early age. I'm self conscious about my looks sometimes however, not trying to be a b!tch or anything--sometimes when my confidence is through the damn roof I don't care what people think, girls can sense the confidence oozing off me, and they all swarm to lick it off.

Sometimes I'm self-conscious of my weird hairline though.

I want to know if you guys get a Nice Guy/Fag Guy/Sexy Guy vibe from the pictures and what I can do to maybe change that. rock on Sosuave :rockon:

http://s131.photobucket.com/albums/p301/Mikespyke/?action=view&current=_DSC9150.jpg


http://s131.photobucket.com/albums/p301/Mikespyke/?action=view&current=_DSC9125.jpg
http://s131.photobucket.com/albums/p301/Mikespyke/?action=view&current=_DSC9436.jpg


http://s131.photobucket.com/albums/p301/Mikespyke/?action=view&current=_DSC9465.jpg


http://s131.photobucket.com/albums/p301/Mikespyke/?action=view&current=michaelnewyears2.png
Usually I grow my hair out for winter srry crap quality

I'm 135 lbs, (non-Americans I think that's about 70 kg??) and eating right and doing pushus & crunches everyday but I'm in need of a gym membership.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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FairShake

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If you're ugly, you'll know it. Women (and men) will have told you. Or they will have said "Looks don't matter anyway."

If you're hot, you'll definitely know it. Women (and men) will have told you. Or shown you.

It's the average people who don't hear much about how they look. If you aren't getting any comments consider yourself in the mediocre middle and be content with looking the best you can.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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moneyisking

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you're not ugly, but def got that little boy look.in you. you need to get to the gym and train them muscles man.
 

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VERY STRONG POTENTIAL
man you have something about you... You don't have a classic look but i think you have a even better potential than a guy that is classicly handsome. Your face as personality, it's different USE IT. be confident, you have the absolute mean to be.
oh and don't grow your hair out like on last pic, makes you look awkward when you're not.

great potential srs, don't ruin it. If you grow in your 20's well, i promise many girl are going to crazy about that face/ attitude.
Marvin Gaye said:
I'm lucky I found this site at 17, most guys deal with sh!tty dating lives but I have the tools for success at an early age. I'm self conscious about my looks sometimes however, not trying to be a b!tch or anything--sometimes when my confidence is through the damn roof I don't care what people think, girls can sense the confidence oozing off me, and they all swarm to lick it off.

Sometimes I'm self-conscious of my weird hairline though.

I want to know if you guys get a Nice Guy/Fag Guy/Sexy Guy vibe from the pictures and what I can do to maybe change that. rock on Sosuave :rockon:

http://s131.photobucket.com/albums/p301/Mikespyke/?action=view&current=_DSC9150.jpg


http://s131.photobucket.com/albums/p301/Mikespyke/?action=view&current=_DSC9125.jpg
http://s131.photobucket.com/albums/p301/Mikespyke/?action=view&current=_DSC9436.jpg


http://s131.photobucket.com/albums/p301/Mikespyke/?action=view&current=_DSC9465.jpg


http://s131.photobucket.com/albums/p301/Mikespyke/?action=view&current=michaelnewyears2.png
Usually I grow my hair out for winter srry crap quality

I'm 135 lbs, (non-Americans I think that's about 70 kg??) and eating right and doing pushus & crunches everyday but I'm in need of a gym membership.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Strelok

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Mate you're 18,you're not fully grown yet,don't compare yourself to the 18yrs old guys on tv,they are mostly 25yrs old actors.

Anyway do as the guys told you,hit the gym cause some muscles help at any age not only with women but also with men when it comes of get respect.
 

Masculinity

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Pros:

-Your hair line is different. There are many men here who would kill to have that hairline in their older years, so take advantage of it! There is nothing wrong with your hair though, but I'd get a cleaner-cut style.

-That girl is kind of cute :rolleyes:

Cons:

-You have that really arrogant look that makes you look like an arrogant douche to those who don't know your personality in pictures 1 & 2. Fix that.

-(not really a con, but), the look in picture #4 is way better. It shows masculinity, playfulness, and confidence.
I'd go more with that rather than the other arrogant look. Be confident, but not overly-confident. The smirk is always magic!
 

BBbardot

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Robyn923b said:
Pros:

-Your hair line is different. There are many men here who would kill to have that hairline in their older years, so take advantage of it! There is nothing wrong with your hair though, but I'd get a cleaner-cut style.

-That girl is kind of cute :rolleyes:

Cons:

-You have that really arrogant look that makes you look like an arrogant douche to those who don't know your personality in pictures 1 & 2. Fix that.

-(not really a con, but), the look in picture #4 is way better. It shows masculinity, playfulness, and confidence.
I'd go more with that rather than the other arrogant look. Be confident, but not overly-confident. The smirk is always magic!
his arrogant look is hot. He shouldn't change it
and i know better,I'm a very straight girl:)
 

BBbardot

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powpow said:
like everyone said, hit the gym.

www.bodybuilding.com

you have a je ne se qua about you (no homo) that Im sure will attract the women. when you grow more into your body, youre gonna be a lady killer.
THIS
and it's written "je ne sais quoi"


so, just so it's clear op.. you're saying that girl are not waiting in line to give you head???
this is odd.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Masculinity

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BBbardot said:
his arrogant look is hot. He shouldn't change it
and i know better,I'm a very straight girl:)
You can speak for yourself, but you can't speak for all women. Plus you're only seventeen, you change what you want every week, dude. And even if you wre 25, women never know what they truly want.

Most girls will find it a turn off if you do it too often. It can also intimidate the shy/insecure girls and keep them from approaching you.


PS: I get the feeling you are a grenade trying to get attention. Let's see your pics in the "I see where this is going" thread; no stealing pics from some girl's profile!
 

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Once you realize nobody is perfect, you will feel more confident about you looks.
 

BBbardot

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Robyn923b said:
You can speak for yourself, but you can't speak for all women. Plus you're only seventeen, you change what you want every week, dude. And even if you wre 25, women never know what they truly want.

Most girls will find it a turn off if you do it too often. It can also intimidate the shy/insecure girls and keep them from approaching you.


PS: I get the feeling you are a grenade trying to get attention. Let's see your pics in the "I see where this is going" thread; no stealing pics from some girl's profile!
shy insecure girls wouldn't approach you if you didn't look arrogant anyway:) and who want shy insecure girls. I would rather they fix their mental issues BEFORE they get with me.

also it doesn't look like OP forces it, looks quite natural. Looks hot to me. I can enjoy many looks in guys really, it's hard to tell everything i like. But his face, i think even some guy will agree with me, he is got something cool going on.
 

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I had similar problems my features are naturally softer and boyish. I grew some facial hair and suddenly people started percieveing me differently. Girls that ignored me gave me more attention cuz i looked my rugged and masculine.

grow a beard!
 

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BBbardot said:
But his face, i think even some guy will agree with me, he is got something cool going on.
Yeah, I'll agree with that. I used to have a friend who made the same facial expressions at the TC and he got a lot of women. He was skinny too...but very sociable.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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