So am at the bar.

[FindingMyCool]

I'm suited up, at the bar, the room is mine so am comfortable and I belong. My body language is saying "hello ladies". So I order my whiskey and a group of girls approach the bar beside me. I wait, contemplating which hand I play to get among the group. I then proceed to do absolutely nothing, assuring myself that it was too early to strike. Soon, the nights over and I've just lost. Such a disappointing feeling. Actually, I got a girls number that night and chatted up a few others but I hate that hesitation and feeling that I need to wait till the moments right. It's ALWAYS right. Am I mistaken? How do I get over this!

Sup?

 

[Chromeo]

you make it the right moment.

"not the right time" is for when you took action and it didnt work out.

there are only opportunities taken and opportunities lost. not right or wrong moments

 

[PapiChulo]

There is such a thing as the wrong moment,i.e. when she is busy or is chatting to some other guy (good way to start a fight). You could of course try to steal her from another guy if ya smooth enough.

Still, there should be a window for you to get in there, just dont pass up on the first opportunity that offers itself, recognize it, be ready on what to say (ahead of time) and throw yourself in there - spontaneous, freestyle,and immediate.

 

[Chromeo]

let me clarify. Your right there are wrong moments. e.i. she is puking on a street corner.

but an opportunity ,as you had there, is never right or wrong.