"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So Afc!!!

BadsnakeUK

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Just writing this post as an illustration of what can happen when you act like an AFC. Basically it started some months ago when I met a girl visiting from another city (a good 9.5 - tall, blond and the most amazing body I've seen bar one). She was only down here for a week but fell hard for my wily ways and I f-closed her 2 days before she went home. She wanted to keep in contact but I couldn't be bothered with LDR so stopped replying.

Anyway, this week, out of the blue, I get an email saying she's coming down again and do I want to meet up. Of course I reply, meet up and give her some of The Old Sweet Talk (TM :D ) as to why I never got back in contact. Long story short I'm seeing her later in the week and she asked if I minded her staying over at mine. Maybe - we'll see... :crackup:

The funny thing is the guy who's house she's staying at while she's over here. The sad motherf*cker has been hanging around her for years being a Nice Guy, letting her stay rent free, buying her stuff, taking her out and getting nowhere. Then she falls for some smooth talking Johnny who doesn't bother keeping in contact, takes the p*ss a lot, never buys her a damn thing and nails her in 3 days of knowing her. Gutted!

Now he's getting really possessive asking her all about me and trying to warn her off me 'as a friend' etc, which has p*ssed her off so she wants to stay with me the whole time next time she's down!

The moral of the story is pretty self - explanatory but thought I'd add this to the mountain of tales about where being a Nice Guy will get you! :crackup:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Interesting story

I take it the guy being nice got the opposite in return.

In essence, follow the, cruel to be kind, rule. Works with women as they sense the drama from it and follow it like a shark to blood.

Keep it up though and remember to follow the DJ trait of, not putting yourself out of your way for women, let them do it instead.
 

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Nice guys still get laid, you can be really smooth and still get pu$$y. if she was drunk, and he's decent looking, thats all it takes.
 

BadsnakeUK

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Sandow said:
Nice guys still get laid, you can be really smooth and still get pu$$y. if she was drunk, and he's decent looking, thats all it takes.
True, but I don't want to have to rely on a significant difference in looks (which is how it usually happens - fatty thinks Christmas has come early). Also I feel like a scumbag getting girls just because they're hammered (not that that usually stops me).

That said, I agree that being nice doesn't disqualify you from getting laid, but being a Nice Guy normally does.
 

DrD77

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what a ****ed up world we live in where u are nice and get **** for it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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