"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just writing this post as an illustration of what can happen when you act like an AFC. Basically it started some months ago when I met a girl visiting from another city (a good 9.5 - tall, blond and the most amazing body I've seen bar one). She was only down here for a week but fell hard for my wily ways and I f-closed her 2 days before she went home. She wanted to keep in contact but I couldn't be bothered with LDR so stopped replying.

Anyway, this week, out of the blue, I get an email saying she's coming down again and do I want to meet up. Of course I reply, meet up and give her some of The Old Sweet Talk (TM :D ) as to why I never got back in contact. Long story short I'm seeing her later in the week and she asked if I minded her staying over at mine. Maybe - we'll see... :crackup:

The funny thing is the guy who's house she's staying at while she's over here. The sad motherf*cker has been hanging around her for years being a Nice Guy, letting her stay rent free, buying her stuff, taking her out and getting nowhere. Then she falls for some smooth talking Johnny who doesn't bother keeping in contact, takes the p*ss a lot, never buys her a damn thing and nails her in 3 days of knowing her. Gutted!

Now he's getting really possessive asking her all about me and trying to warn her off me 'as a friend' etc, which has p*ssed her off so she wants to stay with me the whole time next time she's down!

The moral of the story is pretty self - explanatory but thought I'd add this to the mountain of tales about where being a Nice Guy will get you! :crackup:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Interesting story

I take it the guy being nice got the opposite in return.

In essence, follow the, cruel to be kind, rule. Works with women as they sense the drama from it and follow it like a shark to blood.

Keep it up though and remember to follow the DJ trait of, not putting yourself out of your way for women, let them do it instead.
 

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Nice guys still get laid, you can be really smooth and still get pu$$y. if she was drunk, and he's decent looking, thats all it takes.
 

BadsnakeUK

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Sandow said:
Nice guys still get laid, you can be really smooth and still get pu$$y. if she was drunk, and he's decent looking, thats all it takes.
True, but I don't want to have to rely on a significant difference in looks (which is how it usually happens - fatty thinks Christmas has come early). Also I feel like a scumbag getting girls just because they're hammered (not that that usually stops me).

That said, I agree that being nice doesn't disqualify you from getting laid, but being a Nice Guy normally does.
 

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what a ****ed up world we live in where u are nice and get **** for it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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