Shootin4Dreams
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What should i do before asking her out to get her laughing and wanting to go out with me?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
So a woman has to be on an emotional high to go out with you...
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Tictac
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It's no one's job here to change your diaper. You've been here 9 months and have not read the DJ Bible. If you had, you would not be asking 'day one, post one' questions in thread after thread after thread.
Get lost.
Get lost.
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marmel75
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Dude you need to stop posting these dumb ass questions constantly, you need to do a lot reading, a lot of practicing and a lot of internalizing.
The problem is you are are trying to "act" a certain way to get a result instead of simply being that way which would naturally lead to a result. This comes off as fake, try hard and is not something that is going to lead you to success.
You need to spend serious time working on yourself.
The problem is you are are trying to "act" a certain way to get a result instead of simply being that way which would naturally lead to a result. This comes off as fake, try hard and is not something that is going to lead you to success.
You need to spend serious time working on yourself.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
ever meet a dude and you just "became instant friends" and started hanging out?
its that, but with sex...
and females "bro"
its that, but with sex...
and females "bro"
Making someone laugh is an art, not a science. Every woman is different and each woman will have a different reaction to your sense of humor. You can either tailor it on the fly or take it as a sign she's not in line with your values. My sense of humor is witty, dark, sexual and offensive. If I get a woman laughing, I know she's laid back and fun. No one anywhere can answer that question for you.
Focus on making interactions fun however you can do that. Go read the bible start to finish as well.
Focus on making interactions fun however you can do that. Go read the bible start to finish as well.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
She doesn't have to be on an emotional high to go out with you, she just has to like you.
If you want to move to more than her just liking you, you have to connect emotionally, and display male strength characteristics.
Getting her to laugh is one way, but if you are not a funny person, or your sense of humor isn't something she appreciates, then trying to be something you are not is a waste of time, she'll see right through it and you will fail.
You connect emotionally buy building report and communicating with emotion. And always make sure she knows you are interested in fvcking her without being over the top obvious about it.
If you want to move to more than her just liking you, you have to connect emotionally, and display male strength characteristics.
Getting her to laugh is one way, but if you are not a funny person, or your sense of humor isn't something she appreciates, then trying to be something you are not is a waste of time, she'll see right through it and you will fail.
You connect emotionally buy building report and communicating with emotion. And always make sure she knows you are interested in fvcking her without being over the top obvious about it.
PeasantPlayer
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I guage women and what they find interesting and funny and then I go from there, some women don't find the same humor funny, just like people don't find the same comedians funny. Even if you are not funny, make sure you can talk about a range of subjects and leave her thinking and curious. You don't need to be constantly funny and come off as annoying or goofy
MrWood
Master Don Juan
i just got a woman who visbly repulsed, reactivly pulled away and really thought it was horrible that I used the word "fvck" on the first date
she used it herself in a creative manner 3 days later
(non native english speaker)
just saying it's not what you say... it's who you are
she used it herself in a creative manner 3 days later
(non native english speaker)
just saying it's not what you say... it's who you are
Serenity
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It's funny that nobody wonders how to make someone angry, you just gotta do something that pisses them off. When it comes to laughing and happy all of a sudden it's more complex? Not really, just do something people think is funny and makes them happy.