"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
So a girl added me as a friend on Facebook
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
backseatjuan
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Guys need a high friend count for social proof reasons since girls based their opinion of you according to your facebook friends and the likes you get.
Girls simply needs lotta friends to self-validate and to have a public for their online bullsh1t as big as possible.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
omega05 said:
No. He's a clone of JPlaya, who is a banned troll.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
perhaps if you stopped touching yourself in naughty places you could go out and meet someone who would distract you from imaginary facebook girls.JPlaya2 said:
Or two you are an opposite sex, and they find the same attributes as above.. or they are interested in you sexual/romantically.
gpshields3
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
THESE ARE JUST GIRLS MAN!!
SeymourCake
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does she want my d!ck?
Purefilth
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Definitely!SeymourCake said:
flop it out and dongslap her, itll show off your alpha persona full of confidence and sexuality! and anyone else watching you do this will immediately want the same treatment.
realtalk
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
blow her off? so she is a he or a he/she? definitely take hold of it and blow awayJPlaya2 said:
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JPlaya2 said:
ask her for her phone number and then send her d1cik pics of your uncles.