"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So a girl added me as a friend on Facebook

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Does it means I am in the friendzone because I'm facebook friends? Thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Who Dares Win

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I tend to agree with Mauser, I do that myself to add as much people as possible to gain social proof.

Guys need a high friend count for social proof reasons since girls based their opinion of you according to your facebook friends and the likes you get.

Girls simply needs lotta friends to self-validate and to have a public for their online bullsh1t as big as possible.
 

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omega05 said:
Is this dude serious?

No. He's a clone of JPlaya, who is a banned troll.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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JPlaya2 said:
Does it means I am in the friendzone because I'm facebook friends? Thanks
perhaps if you stopped touching yourself in naughty places you could go out and meet someone who would distract you from imaginary facebook girls.
 

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Some people just add people for trivial reasons. I've gotten requests out of the blue from people whom I can't recall ever meeting solely because we had a lot of mutual friends therefore in their mind we should know each other.
 

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Most people will not go out of their way to add you on Facebook unless they are the same sex and find you as someone they had fun with and can enhance their fun meter..

Or two you are an opposite sex, and they find the same attributes as above.. or they are interested in you sexual/romantically.
 

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let's see how many geniuses reply to this thread before realizing that it's fake.
 

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LOL JPLAYA IS BACK!!!! Whatup homie! I've been missing your troll posts. :rock:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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LOL the OP must be tripping on some weed, or is just one of these guys who over-analyses these things! Go to the DJ bible man. Haha. Anyone else laughing their ass off now? XD Check out that question, it's so uncool! Well, at least these AFC's make us laugh, right? :D THESE ARE JUST GIRLS MAN!!
 

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hey guyz this girl made made eye contact when we were walking pass each other in the library

does she want my d!ck?
 

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SeymourCake said:
hey guyz this girl made made eye contact when we were walking pass each other in the library

does she want my d!ck?
Definitely!

flop it out and dongslap her, itll show off your alpha persona full of confidence and sexuality! and anyone else watching you do this will immediately want the same treatment.
realtalk:D
 

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totally srs about this. she asked me out today, idk whether to blow her off or not because i dont want to waste time in the friendzone
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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JPlaya2 said:
totally srs about this. she asked me out today, idk whether to blow her off or not because i dont want to waste time in the friendzone
blow her off? so she is a he or a he/she? definitely take hold of it and blow away
 

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JPlaya2 said:
totally srs about this. she asked me out today, idk whether to blow her off or not because i dont want to waste time in the friendzone

ask her for her phone number and then send her d1cik pics of your uncles.
 
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